Art deco architecture, diverse heritage, and a dynamic history of innovation are just a few characteristics of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oklahoma’s second-largest city attracts seniors to its surprisingly affordable cost of living and wealth of senior living opportunities.
A Place for Mom partners with many assisted living facilities in Tulsa. These communities help seniors who need help with activities of daily living like dressing, bathing, and eating. This all-inclusive guide provides answers to questions seniors and their families may have when trying to make an informed decision, such as how much assisted living in Tulsa costs and how seniors pay for care. We also include detailed information on assisted living regulations and an overview of what it’s like to retire in Tulsa.
Within the first few minutes of us walking in the door, we both looked at each other and said "this is it!" Everybody was super friendly, employees and residents, it didn't smell, the kitchen was good about...
The Legend at Tulsa Hills has been an excellent facility for my mother. The facilities are clean, they have scheduled activities every day, and the staff genuinely cares about my mother.
*Really pay attention to how you are dealt with and how each admin. staff leaves you feeling. *Pay attention to Senior nurse in how knowledgeable they are. *Speak up when you feel or sense something is off...
To be honest I moved her here because they had shared rooms that were around [removed] a month cheaper. She had to live here to get on the list for one of those rooms. Since she's been here they raised the...
She loves it. They assist her and have a doctor come in to see the residents. The staff is friendly, polite and helpful. They put out a real effort to help the residents. They have their best interests in...
I'd say you have to look past that it hasn't been updated in a while. And look at how it is taken care of, cleanliness, grounds, etc. As far as the staff they all are very friendly and very caring. I would...
I'm there on weekends and often the food is cold and difficult for people to eat. It would be better to have things that could be picked up easily, or cut up or easy to get onto a fork or spoon. My mom isn't...
Our dad loves it there, but he needs so much care now there are things they will not do and the things they will do are all extra. It's quite an expense and thankfully the VA kicked in to help finally....
We have been looking for a place for our mom for about 2 years. The first place we chose was a disappointment and we started another search. Then we found Aberdeen Heights! Now we feel confident that Mom is...
They were very friendly, knew who we were, made sure our questioned got answered. Administrative was sometimes slower than expected with answers, but we got them. I would recommend Heatheridge Assisted...
Families should read the fine print on what is and isn't the family's responsibility. Mom does love the friends she's made, the food and the overall lifestyle.
We have been very happy with The Parke Assisted Living community. What is really important for us is that our loved one is very happy and is well cared for. Based on the experience we have had so far we...
We have a great cleaning lady. All the staff are friendly, except for one and she's warming up to me. The quality of care - it's very good. For meals, we are served the heavy meal at lunch and the light...
We are Very Happy with Brookdale in Broken Arrow They are treating my mother so good!!! The home be a little run down but the Care is Wonderful. Attitude of the nurses, LPN's & staff are Good & they are...
The people at “A Place for Mom” did an amazing job helping me and my father find a place for my grandmother that met her special circumstances. Beehive assisted-living turned out to be the perfect place for...
Friendliness of staff is 5. They are very nice and seem happy to be there. Overall experience 3. Cedar Ridge is short staffed and in a year there have been 3 different activity directors come and...
What we like the most is their care and understanding. The security. [name removed] their activity director is nothing short of amazing and keeps us updated on my dad constantly. We would recommend this...
It is very clean. The Employees are very friendly, and gives excellent care. The meals could be changed a little. They serve too much Chicken and pasta. The residents don't eat or get tired of eating the...
I was very pleased with the attitude of all of the workers. Everyone was friendly respectful and seem to have a helpful attitude. Mini were willing to go the extra mile to see that I had what I needed. There...
I am very pleased with this facility and the care they are giving [name removed] and meeting his needs. I think the staff always has the time to listen to me and respond to my questions. I think they should...
This seems like to be a good place. The food, administrative staff, the cleanliness, and friendliness all stand out to me about the community. Some of the activities available include bingo, exercising,...
We developed a proprietary recommendation system that orders Tulsa community options based on factors we know are important to seniors and their families:
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The average monthly rent for our assisted living partners in Tulsa starts at about $4,600, according to A Place for Mom’s 2024 internal data.[01] Additional costs for services may include the following features:
Costs typically vary depending on the floor plan, location, and amenities. Pricing can also be affected by services and potential add-on fees, like the following:
The chart below represents average baseline costs in the broader area without additional fees. This can help you and your loved one compare prices with nearby cities.
Many seniors and families plan ahead to ensure an assisted living community is within their budget. Here, you’ll find ways you and your loved one can pay for assisted living care. Assisted living can be attainable with a combination of private income sources and public benefits, such as Veterans Affairs (VA) benefits, Medicare, and Medicaid.
Like many seniors and families, you may pay for some or all assisted living costs with personal income like savings, pensions, and investment returns. Your loved one may also be able to cover senior care costs through other private methods like the following:
Number of veterans who live in Tulsa as of 2021
Approximate age of Tulsa veterans aged 65+
Yes, qualifying senior veterans can pay for some or all assisted living costs with VA benefits like the Aid and Attendance benefit and the Veterans Pension. In fact, senior veterans could use these specific payments for anything that improves their quality of life, from care costs to transportation costs. Most veterans find that the Aid and Attendance benefit offers the most assistance since it’s added on top of the Veterans Pension.
If your loved one is disabled or a surviving spouse, it’s likely they will qualify for some type of VA benefit. Don’t let the word “disabled” put you off looking into benefits. The VA has an extensive list of eligible service-connected disabilities. This list is not exhaustive, and there are many factors that determine what type of benefits a veteran qualifies for. Therefore, it’s essential to reach out to local veteran benefit officers to ensure your loved one receives all they can from the VA.
You and your loved one can find extremely helpful guidance when looking for veterans benefits assistance in Tulsa. The city helps veterans understand what they qualify for, work through the application process, and file claims with resources from veterans service organizations (VSOs). The Muskogee VA Regional Benefit Office is another great resource for understanding benefits.
Below, we highlight some of the VSOs available in Tulsa, and the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission (OESC) lists even more resources for veterans in Oklahoma through their site. Other resources like the Tulsa Area United Way’s community resource line and Eastern Oklahoma 2-1-1’s veteran benefits assistance search can help local seniors find additional support.
We also encourage you to look into VSO nonprofits. You can find local chapters for Disabled American Veterans, Veterans of Foreign Wars, American Legion, and Vietnam Veterans of America in the lists below.
The Oklahoma Department of Veterans Affairs also helps veterans find local resources with its VALOR (or OKVALOR) veterans assistance locator. Some seniors may find this system difficult to navigate, so here is a step-by-step guide on how to find Tulsa VSOs below:
Click on the FEATURES tab at any time for further guidance on operating OKVALOR and using different features.
Note: The main page includes an area for addresses, but this may generate unclear results or errors if the address isn’t exact.
Resources for Tulsa veterans
Veterans Liaison: Jed Cochran
175 E. Second St., Suite 15-048
Tulsa, OK 74103
Phone: 918-596-7485
Email: jcochran@cityoftulsa.org
Muskogee VA Regional Benefit Office
125 S. Main St.
Muskogee, OK 74401
Phone: 800-827-1000
Hours: Monday through Friday, 7:30 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Disabled American Veterans (DAV)
JE “Jim” Bracy Chapter 32
3131 E. Pine St.
Tulsa, OK 74110
Phone: 918-834-4643
Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW)
Post 577
1109 E. Sixth St.
Tulsa, OK 74120
Phone: 918-585-9148
Hours: Tuesday through Friday, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Vietnam Veterans of America (VVA)
Chapter #524
12407 E. 13th Place
Tulsa, OK 74128
Phone: 918-437-7507
Email: bbstacker31@aol.com
SoonerCare — Oklahoma’s Medicaid program — can help eligible low-income seniors receive health care coverage. This state-funded health insurance program can cover care services such as the following:
SoonerCare doesn’t cover room and board costs in an assisted living facility. However, home and community based services waivers help cover in-home health care services in a senior’s residence like an assisted living community.
The home and community based services waiver, ADvantage Waiver Program, helps cover the following in an assisted living community:
The Community Living, Aging, and Protective Services (CAP) webpage can help your loved one find similar services if they don’t meet ADvantage criteria.
SoonerCare ADvantage waiver recipients can access assisted living options through the Assisted Living Service Option (ALSO) by requesting it through their ADvantage Case Manager. However, seniors must meet additional qualifications to access ALSO:
ALSO is only available for designated ADvantage assisted living facilities, but A Place for Mom doesn’t partner with these facilities. You can, however, access a list of ADvantage assisted living facilities on the Oklahoma Department of Human Services website.
If your loved one isn’t an ADvantage recipient, they can call ALSO’s care line 800-435-4711 to request access to the service.
SoonerCare programs may be difficult to navigate. Many resources in Tulsa, like the Department of Human Services and Social Security Administration offices, help guide locals through SoonerCare programs, benefits, the application process, and filing claims.
Your loved one can use our resources below and find additional resources using Eastern Oklahoma’s 2-1-1 community resource line or online chat.
Tulsa resident Medicaid resources
Oklahoma Department of Human Services
201 W. Fifth St.
Tulsa, OK 74103
Phone: 405-522-5050
Hours: Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Seniors age 65+ may be eligible for medical coverage through the federal health insurance program, Medicare. Unfortunately, Medicare doesn’t cover room and board costs in an assisted living community. Instead, Medicare helps cover medically necessary services associated with assisted living, such as those below:
Additionally, seniors age 55+ may be able to access low-cost health care services with the help of the dual Medicaid and Medicare Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly (PACE). Eligible seniors can find various health care services, like the following:
Oklahoma’s Medicare Improvements for Patients and Providers Act (MIPPA) provides programs that help low-income Medicare recipients with premium costs.
Tulsa residents have access to multiple local resources — like the Social Security and area agency on aging offices — to help guide them through Medicare benefits, eligibility requirements, the application process, and filing claims. Community Living, Aging, and Protective Services (CAP) can also provide insight and assistance.
Seniors can receive specialized help through the Senior Health Insurance Counseling Program, dedicated to helping seniors with Medicare benefits. Your loved one can also use the Eastern Oklahoma resource line via the nonprofit organization Tulsa Area United Way.
If a senior ever needs an advocate to represent their health care rights, the state long-term care ombudsman is dedicated to championing the aging population.
Tulsa resident Medicare resources
Tulsa Social Security office
14002 E. 21st St.
Tulsa, OK 74134
Phone: 866-931-7106
TTY Phone: 800-325-0778
Fax: 833-950-3007
Hours: Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.
2 W. Second St., Suite 800
Tulsa, OK 74103
Phone: 918-584-7526
Fax: 918-583-1024
Email: incog@incog.org
INCOG Area Agency on Aging senior information line
Tulsa Phone: 918-579-9477
Statewide Phone: 800-211-2116
Current long-term care ombudsman contact
Name: Bill Whited
Phone: 405-521-2281
Fax: 405-522-6739
General information and assistance for seniors
Phone: 800-211-2116
Local MIPPA coordinator
Name: Casey Jones
Phone: 918-579-9477
Email: cjones@incog.org
Oklahoma assisted living facilities must meet certain regulations to keep seniors safe. The Oklahoma State Department of Health (OSDH) licenses every assisted living community as an assisted living center or residential care home.[03,04]
Yes, assisted living centers and residential care homes must be inspected every 15 months to be licensed. These inspections help ensure the building is up to current standards, follows State Fire Marshal rules, and meets local fire safety requirements.[03] The Oklahoma State Department of Health (OSDH) makes these reports available to the public on the Long Term Care Provider Survey/Inspection Search.
Below is a step-by-step guide on how to navigate the system and find detailed reports on Tulsa assisted living facilities.
Assisted living facilities in Oklahoma don’t have many building regulations. However, the state does ensure residents in assisted living communities don’t have to share private areas. There can be no more than two residents per bedroom and no more than four residents per bathroom.[03]
While Oklahoma doesn’t require private units in assisted living facilities, every community must offer privacy with lockable doors in every unit. Even if your loved one shares a unit, they can bring personal furnishings per Oklahoma law.[03]
Assisted living communities must provide adequate staffing to meet the needs of every resident by staffing the following positions:[03]
Staff members who work directly with residents must be trained in first aid and CPR to ensure the safety of senior residents. Additionally, your loved one will always have attentive caregivers available, as Oklahoma law requires assisted living communities to have at least two staff members awake and on-duty at all times. At least one direct care staff member must be available around the clock, limiting access to areas outside the facility.[03]
Assisted living communities in Oklahoma are allowed to provide multiple senior care services, like those listed below:[03]
Assisted living communities aren’t allowed to admit seniors who need more care than the facility can provide. Community health professionals are legally obligated to identify whether a senior will receive the care they need in that facility. After consulting with the senior, the community health professional must create a customized care plan.[03]
Yes, seniors have the right to know about community procedures and services they can receive. A senior should receive a complete contract from an assisted living facility before moving into the community. This contract should include answers to the following:[03]
Residential care homes and assisted living centers follow similar guidelines. However, there are some notable differences.
For example, residential care homes must staff a sufficient amount of caregivers who are available for at least 45 minutes daily per person. Additionally, one person must be in charge of the home at all times. Similar to assisted living centers, residential care homes must always have one staff member trained in first aid and CPR on site 24/7.[04]
Residential care homes also allow more residents per room and common area:[04]
Oklahoma State Department of Health
123 Robert S. Kerr Ave.
Oklahoma City, OK 73102
Phone: 405-426-8175
Fax: 405-900-7571
E-mail: HealthResources@health.ok.gov
Since Oklahoma’s public health emergency ended in May 2021, Tulsa no longer has COVID-19 restrictions. However, seniors and their families should ask prospective communities about specific on-site COVID-19 policies since a community may have its own guidelines. Since COVID-19 policies consistently change, visit Oklahoma State Department of Health (OSDH) for the most current local guidelines.
Assisted living supports seniors while encouraging socialization and active living through engaging activities. From elegant communities with modern touches to charming communities with warm hues, Tulsa provides a wide range of assisted living communities. Read on to learn how our partners ensure your loved one will feel at home and cared for.
Tulsa assisted living communities can sometimes provide more than one type of senior living. Only four of our partners in Tulsa are designated for assisted living services only, while 13 also offer independent living and/or memory care services.[01]
Communities that provide a continuum of care services can be helpful for couples with different needs. For example, if your loved one only needs assisted living, but their spouse needs memory care, they could live on the same campus. Additionally, some of these facilities offer floor plans for couples to live together even if their care needs differ. When you tour a community, ask about options for couples to continue living together.
Assisted living facilities in Tulsa help ensure your loved one’s safety through consistent supervision from staff members who are available around the clock. Additionally, most assisted living communities prepare for emergencies with alert plans like built-in call systems, wireless pendants, or pull cords. Other security features that can benefit seniors may include the following:[01]
Some seniors may be hesitant to move into a senior living community, so it’s essential to help your loved one understand how they can continue living a rich life in assisted living. All our Tulsa partners offer on-site activities that boost engagement and socialization. Check out some examples of such below:[01]
And, 83% of our partners schedule day trips or outings.[01]
Senior loved ones will be able to live comfortably in an assisted living community thanks to luxe amenities and services. While on-site amenities vary by facility, these are the most commonly seen comforts in Tulsa:
All assisted living communities provide meals, but many also offer the following features:
Other than nutrition, senior residents will be able to take advantage of on-site health care services, such as the following:[01]
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Number of seniors 65+ living in Tulsa as of 2021
About 15% of seniors in Tulsa are 65+.
Mean retirement income for Tulsa seniors 65+
Tulsa is home to some of the best hospitals in Oklahoma. Below are some of most popular and highly rated health care systems in the area that offer specialties in senior care services.
Saint Francis Hospital is ranked No. 1 in Tulsa. It also ranks well for many conditions and procedures due to the hospital’s designated Comprehensive Stroke Center. Here, seniors can also find specialized care at the hospital’s Senior Specialty Unit.
Hillcrest Medical Center ranks No. 2 in Tulsa. The health care system performs highly for stoke treatments thanks to its Det Norske Veritas (DNV) Certified Comprehensive Stroke Center — Oklahoma Stroke and Neurological Institute.
Ascension St. John Medical Center is an award-winning hospital acknowledged for areas of expertise, like cardiology and orthopedics, and for being an age-friendly environment.
Most of our assisted living partners offer transportation services to their residents. In fact, 89% provide either at-cost or complimentary transportation services.[01] Seniors should prioritize transportation services provided by their communities since it’s the most convenient way to get around the city.
Tulsa also offers safe alternatives for eligible seniors like SoonerRide for SoonerCare recipients or Tulsa Transit’s ADA-paratransit service Lift Paratransit.
There are other options available through Tulsa Transit:
For additional information on other ways to get around Tulsa, visit the City of Tulsa transportation webpage.
Since Tulsa is a large metropolis, the city may still be difficult to get around without your own or a rental vehicle. Walk Score ranks cities out of 100 on their transportation options and how easy it is to get around the area. Tulsa ranks fairly low for ease of navigating the city.[06]
Whether you’re a visiting loved one or a local senior resident, you’ll find endless opportunities in Tulsa. Between Tulsa’s history and artsy culture, there’s something for everyone to appreciate. Read on to learn what you can do with your senior loved one.
While we’ve selected some highlights, you can find more through the Travel Oklahoma Tulsa or the Visit Tulsa web pages.
Tulsa is known for being a major contributor to the U.S. oil, aerospace, telecommunications, and finance industries. The city is proud of its powerful history, documenting the impact they’ve had with several monuments and museums:
Some museums honor multiple industries, such as the following:
Additionally, you can learn more about the aerospace industry at the Tulsa Air and Space Museum and Planetarium.
Oklahoma is known for a significant number of Native American reservations. In fact, 14 federally recognized tribal nations call northern Oklahoma home. You and your loved one can learn more on the Oklahoma Department of Libraries website — where you can read about Tulsa’s most prominent Native American tribes: Muscogee (Creek) Tribe, Cherokee Nation, and Osage Nation.
One distinguished cultural center in Tulsa is the Greenwood Cultural Center, which features the area’s African American history. You and your loved one can also visit the John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park — a place that memorializes the area’s history of civic tragedy.
Whether you’re a local senior or visiting family member, exploring Tulsa’s renowned art deco architecture is a must. Travel back in time to the Roaring Twenties while walking through downtown Tulsa’s Deco District. Here seniors and visitors can find some of the finest buildings like the following:
The area also offers guided tours to ensure you don’t miss the area’s finest buildings. Such tours are provided by the following:
Additionally, the DECOPOLIS Tulsa Art Deco Museum highlights the art deco architecture of Tulsa with a themed indoor town square where you can find souvenirs.
Another of Tulsa’s famous districts is the Tulsa Arts District. As a popular hotspot, the district hosts art crawls showcasing anything from local artist works to live performances.
If you aren’t able to catch an art crawl, don’t fret; instead, you both can enjoy several accessible art museums in Tulsa:
Note: Some of these museums offer free wheelchair rentals on a first-come, first-served basis, so ask about their accessibility features in advance.
Go out to eat with your loved one at one of the countless restaurants in Tulsa. A meat-loving city, Tulsa is home to steakhouses starring locally sourced cuts from Oklahoma’s beef cattle farming industry. Many steakhouses also offer flavorful seafood options. Additionally, you’ll want to try out the local barbeque joints.
Even though Tulsa is a large metropolis, the city still rests in Green Country, so it doesn’t skimp on outdoor areas. Some of the best options for you and your loved one to explore are below:
Brookdale Claremore, Known Memory Care at Tulsa and The Stonehaven are the top-rated Assisted Living facilities near Tulsa, OK. These Assisted Living facilities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews. See full list of communities.
The average cost of Assisted Living in Tulsa is $4,861 per month. This cost may vary based on location, amenities, floorplan, level of care and other factors.
A Place for Mom. (2022). A Place for Mom proprietary data.
United States Census Bureau. (2021). Tulsa city; Oklahoma. [Data set]. American Community Survey.
Continuum of Care and Assisted Living. 63 Oklahoma State Department of Health § 1-890.1. (1997).
Residential Care Homes. 63 Oklahoma State Department of Health § 1-104 and 1-819. (1991).
U.S. News and World Report. (2024). Best hospitals in Tulsa, OK.
Walk Score. (2024). Living in Tulsa.
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A Place for Mom. (2022). A Place for Mom proprietary data.
United States Census Bureau. (2021). Tulsa city; Oklahoma. [Data set]. American Community Survey.
Continuum of Care and Assisted Living. 63 Oklahoma State Department of Health § 1-890.1. (1997).
Residential Care Homes. 63 Oklahoma State Department of Health § 1-104 and 1-819. (1991).
U.S. News and World Report. (2024). Best hospitals in Tulsa, OK.
Walk Score. (2024). Living in Tulsa.