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Memory care in Lilac offers 24-hour care and supervision, trained staff, and specialized activities to accommodate the needs of seniors with Alzheimer’s or dementia. These communities typically offer advanced security features and engaging activities to help ensure residents’ well-being. The cost of memory care in Lilac is about $6,579 per month.

To find the best memory care options for your needs and budget, browse the 242 communities, read 7839 reviews of families’ experiences, and learn about available services and amenities. You may also consider nearby communities such as Temecula, Oceanside and Escondido.

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My mother-in-law has been a resident at the Cloisters for almost 6 years, she is 100 years old, walks with a walker, has severe memory deficits and needs assistance with all of her daily activities. The...
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Cloisters of the Valley offers complete residential senior care in a private, caring environment. If you are looking into an assisted living facility for your loved one, you will want to make sure you are getting the best medical care in the most home-like environment possible. Please stop by to...
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The location was ideal since it's midway between me and my family. It the only facility we found to offer an independent living option, as well as assisted living and memory care
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
At La Vida Real, we surround our residents with an engaging blend of comfort, style, fine dining, endless social opportunities, and an impressive array of recreational and wellness programs. Here, you’ll discover a service-enriched retirement lifestyle specially designed to meet your unique needs...
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My Mom has been with Our Countryside Resort for the past year. She has adjusted very well while there and is much happier and calmer since being there. The staff is very kind, compassionate, and attentive...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Our Countryside Resort we are dedicated to creating a home for elderly individuals with Alzheimer's and Dementia. We offer a safe, loving, and comfortable environment that they can continue to thrive and enjoy the highest quality of life.
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My only comment is that if a senior needs a lot of assistance this is not the place to be. We are having to pay for outside additional caregivers to come in because he needs more help. He is in the...
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
"The Ivy at Wellington is a senior living community set on over 8 acres easily accessible from Interstate 5 and Highway 73. The location between the picturesque foothills of the Saddleback Mountains and the Pacific Ocean is only a short distance to many popular restaurants, golf courses and local...
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The staff, of which there were many and you always saw them, were very kind and caring to my mom. The staff always recognized my father and told him where she was. There were many activities to participate...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
ActivCare Rolling Hills Ranch in east Chula Vista is a specialized senior living community that serves the changing needs of those with memory loss by offering a spectrum of living options.The community is specially designed and built for people with memory loss. Colorful murals assist with...
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They're care was good when [name removed] was watching my father. They really did try their hardest with him. When [name removed] was not there to care for him, the other staff was very accommodating and...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Golden Care Living at Golden Meadows and Golden View are both located in Banning, California.  Our communities are nestled in the beautiful hills of Banning.  Our single story resident homes include large spacious private and semi-private rooms, some with it's own exit to a fully...
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Friendliness. Very LGBTQ friendly. Excellent staff. Budget on food seems to be a problem. The man in charge is especially great.
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Stonewall Gardens Assisted Living is an assisted living community located in Palm Springs and was created especially for LGBT seniors and friends. Our passion is to create an environment where your well-being is at the center of everything we do. Stonewall Gardens offers a wide range of services...
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We recently moved my mother in to Santianna and it's been a real blessing. Everyone there is friendly and helpful. [names removed] worked with us a lot to get great room with a great view. The food is...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Santianna provides an inviting lifestyle in a setting of exceptional natural beauty. Set on a picturesque hillside in Carlsbad, our vibrant community enjoys expansive views of the ravine and town below. We are a luxury property that values strong relationships and is dedicated to providing...
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There is always room for improvement. Keep in mind, this is our first experience with assisted living. Overall the staff is very friendly, caring, and supportive. Naturally, some staff members really stand...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Ivy Park at La Jolla is a vibrant senior living community nestled in a picturesque suburban neighborhood in the bustling city of San Diego. Just east of the Interstate 5, Ivy Park is just minutes from Scripps Memorial Hospital La Jolla, VA San Diego Healthcare Center, chic boutiques, art...
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The staff is caring and great. The cost increased $[removed] after the first year. That was not disclosed when the original agreement was signed. The increase is ridiculous. Room size is adequate and...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Raincross at Riverside, you'll find yourself surrounded by beautifully manicured grounds and resort-style amenities, such as a restaurant style dining, social activities and a full service beauty salon. Located nearby are restaurants, shopping, medical centers and houses of worship for your...
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Photo of Brookdale Sunwest Assisted Living and Memory Care
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Brookdale Sunwest Assisted Living provides a welcoming atmosphere with caring staff members . Restaurant style dining, social activities, and intellectual pursuits are available to those who wish to partake...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Do more of what you love. Maybe it’s time to let someone else do the dishes. Whether you’re looking for independent living, assisted living or memory care, our community in Hemet, California, has care options to meet your changing needs. You’ll have the lifestyle you want, plus care if you...
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We like the concept of memory care cottages with common garden area. Residents have their apartment and can freely walk outside cottage around the grounds without feeling locked in
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Park Terrace is Rancho Santa Margarita's only full-service rental retirement community. Your first indication of the excellence we promise comes the moment you set foot on our resort-like campus. Park Terrace is situated in the award winning master planned community of Rancho Santa Margarita,...
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My relative isn't thrilled with the food and dining room service at this time. Staff is awesome...everything from reception to health coordinator, housekeeping, etc. Plus I notice they are able to handle...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Escondido Senior Living is a welcoming community offering Assisted Living, Memory Care, and Respite Care. Designed to provide a continuum of care, the community supports residents with personalized services tailored to their unique needs while fostering independence and engagement.Residents enjoy...
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The tour was great. Nothing was hidden, and everything was very transparent. The staff is friendly and attentive. They remembered my name and my mom's story. The assessment findings were absolutely in line...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Situated on beautifully landscaped grounds, Bonita Villa Senior Living is a vibrant community designed to help older people enjoy the benefits of an active lifestyle and experience greater well-being.This inviting residence offers a selection of studio and one-bedroom apartments, each with a...
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I’m a Vista Gardens resident and I have been living here for four years. I love this community. It’s so friendly and helpful. The amenities are housekeeping, laundry service and the Dining Room meals. They...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Vista Gardens is a family owned and operated Memory Care Community located in the serene country-side of Vista, California. We have designed a Memory Care facility that provides for the well-being of your loved one in an innovative, safe and secure environment. Our care services are personalized...
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MorningStar of Mission Viejo has been a wonderful community from everything I've experienced with my loved one. The staff are caring, professional, and truly dedicated to the residents. The Executive...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
MorningStar of Mission Viejo enjoys an amenity-rich neighborhood in southern Mission Viejo. This near-perfect site for senior housing has numerous restaurants, the Shops at Mission Viejo Mall and Providence mission Hospital all within one mile. Laguna Beach is less than 30 minutes away. Our...
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Villa Monticello Assisted Living is great. I really was very satisfied with the services they provided. The staff there are very caring. The facility is really clean. It was just an all around good...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
About Villa MonticelloVilla Monticello Assisted Living is a 29-bed Escondido Assisted Living facility. We provide care for ambulatory or non-ambulatory residents who have mild to moderate dementia and frail elderly who may have physical and/or medical challenges that require full care and...
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Wonderful place with outstanding loving care. While Silverado Is not one of the newer places in town, it proved to be the best place for my Mom. My Mom just passed away this spring and was at Silverado for...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
For nearly 20 years Silverado has been a leader in memory care, focused on providing every resident the best quality of life possible through care that addresses mind, body and spirit. Our dedication to compassion and clinical excellence has made us a leader in the care of those with Alzheimer's,...
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I would highly recommend Oak Hill Residential Care for the needs of your loved ones. My father has been a resident for over 2 years now and is doing better than ever. He has all types of issues and needs...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Oak Hill Residential Care, a not-for-profit licensed residential care facility for the elderly, offers an affordable alternative to the high cost of long-term custodial care, one-third to one-half the cost. Oak Hill Residential care provides a home-like environment while providing the highest...
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The Manse is a lovely facility with a real feeling of "home" for its residents. The atmosphere is family-like and is evident in the relationship the staff develops with each resident. Most importantly,...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Located in the beautiful northern part of San Diego county, The Manse exists as a beautiful, two-story colonial styled home for the elderly. With services ranging from assisted living, respite care, to Dementia care, The Manse is committed to providing for all the needs of your loved one during...
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This is a reasonably priced and friendly community. The staff are also very professional. They take the residents outside for walks, bingo, arts and crafts and more activities to keep the residents busy.
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The medium-sized city of Escondido, California is rightly named; it comes from the Spanish word for hidden, and the city's location, nestled as it is in a shallow valley surrounded by a ring of rocky hills, makes it appear quite hidden indeed. Not so hidden, though, is Maple Manor Board &...
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My Uncle has no family in the area and I live in Canada, so it's great to know that he is well taken care of at Vista del Lago. Wonderful caring staff and fun activities. Being kept informed with pictures...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Vista del Lago is a memory care community located in a quiet residential community in the historic city of Escondido, San Diego County, California. Our staff provides a nurturing, caring environment for all of our residents, encouraging those with Alzheimer's or dementia to stay active. Numerous...
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From the beginning of my tour with Bernadette until now I have no complaints. My Grandpa has been here for a few months now and He is happy and content. I have no issues when trying to communicate anything...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Temecula Memory Care is a 64-bed memory care facility serving patients suffering from Dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, and other diagnoses of mental health. As part of the 80,000 sq. ft. Temecula Healthcare Center campus, we have access to all of the services of a skilled nursing facility, giving...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Our mission at Villa Bernardo is serving seniors in such a manner that preserves their dignity and promotes their independence while enhancing their quality of life. We have well-trained staff to take care of your loved ones like our own mom or dad.
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The facility is top notch, staff is extremely friendly and caring. Dining room staff makes you feel like you're at home, making sure you have anything you need. They have a gym and stretching/balancing...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Your New Lifestyle AwaitsNo chores, housework, or upkeep—only bright, rich days in a coastal paradise. Sound too good to be true? Welcome to The Hacienda Mission San Luis Rey, where you can finally have your day in the sun.Explore Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, and Short-Term...
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Cost of memory care in Lilac, CA

The average cost of senior living in Lilac is $6,579 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Riverside, CA with an average of $6,286 per month.

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. state and national averages

Lilac, CA
$6,579/mo
U.S. national average
$6,999/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. other senior living options

Memory Care
$6,579/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,286/mo
Studio
$7,589/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,898/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,793/mo

Senior living costs in Lilac vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Lilac, CA
Column state: California
Column national: U.S.
Community typeLilac, CACaliforniaU.S.
Memory Care$6,579/mo$7,329/mo$6,999/mo
Assisted Living$5,179/mo$6,206/mo$5,830/mo
Independent Living$4,303/mo$4,174/mo$3,520/mo
Memory Care
Lilac, CA:$6,579/mo
California:$7,329/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Assisted Living
Lilac, CA:$5,179/mo
California:$6,206/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Independent Living
Lilac, CA:$4,303/mo
California:$4,174/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
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Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, over time

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Memory care cost trends in Lilac, CA

The table below shows how monthly memory care costs in Lilac have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Lilac, CA$6,793/mo$6,545/mo+3.8%
California$6,924/mo$6,714/mo+3.1%
National$6,685/mo$6,446/mo+3.7%
Lilac, CA
2024 average cost:$6,793/mo
2023 average cost:$6,545/mo
Percent change:+3.8%
California
2024 average cost:$6,924/mo
2023 average cost:$6,714/mo
Percent change:+3.1%
National
2024 average cost:$6,685/mo
2023 average cost:$6,446/mo
Percent change:+3.7%
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What families are saying about memory care in Lilac

Recent reviews for memory care in Lilac

Santianna in Carlsbad, CA

4.8
They did not do a good job onboarding but the staff is new and friendly and our loved one has settled in. It's rather expensive [fee removed] a month but it is brand new and very nice. Out of the other communities we toured Santianna is by far the nicest facility, and so far the care has been ...
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WellQuest of Murrieta

4.3
It was a good community while I was there. The room size was fair. the food was excellent and they had a variety. The staff was very friendly and efficient and communicated well. They were quick to respond if there were any issues I would recommend the community.

Discovery Commons Raincross in Riverside, CA

4.3
The front of the door/reception area staff and staff who work directly with clients/residents are wonderful. Great communication, caring, helpful. The staff who applicants work with initially to sign up are wonderful too - communicate quickly and helpful. However, once we signed up there was ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Dedicated and responsive staff. Several reviews highlight the attentiveness and caring nature of the staff at various communities. For instance, at Las Villas Del Norte, the staff's quick response to concerns and emails is appreciated, while at Oakmont of Escondido Hills, the aides are praised for their wonderful care and ...
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Quality of care and safety measures. Reviews stress the importance of high-quality care and safety measures in senior living communities. For example, at Vista Gardens Memory Care, staff are attentive to residents' needs and handle facility/maintenance requests quickly. Additionally, at ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, care staff are ...
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Engaging activities and social events. Engaging activities and social events are valued in many senior living communities, as evidenced in reviews for ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, where residents participate in arts & crafts, puzzles, games, exercise, conversation, music, and themed lunch events. At Everest at Oceanside, residents ...
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Comfortable living spaces and homelike atmosphere. Some reviews mention the importance of comfortable living spaces and a homelike atmosphere for seniors. For instance, at Silvergate Rancho Bernardo, residents describe the community as a warm, welcoming place that feels like a vacation or a resort. At Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Mar ...
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Effective communication between staff and families. Clear and effective communication between staff and families is crucial for ensuring the well-being of senior residents. At Everest at Oceanside, families appreciate honest and ongoing conversations with community staff to keep them informed and make sure care needs are being met. At Las Vill ...
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Strong sense of community and friendliness. A strong sense of community and friendliness is another desirable feature in senior living communities. For example, at Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Marcos, residents have praised the staff for their warm and compassionate nature, while at Santianna, the facility is described as the ...
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Lilac review score based on 1,307 family reviews

8.5
Review score220 facilities1307 reviewsWrite a review
This proprietary review score is based on 1307 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Lilac review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how memory care residents and family members rate memory care in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Lilac review score compared against nearby cities

8.5
Lilac, CA220 facilities
8.6
Riverside, CA0 facilities
8.5
Anaheim, CA0 facilities

Review subcategories for Lilac memory care

When memory care residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 1,307 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. This chart helps you compare Lilac resident and family memory care satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Lilac, CA averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.7
3.8
Friendliness
3.8
3.9
Care services
3.5
3.6
Staff
3.7
3.8
Meals & dining
3.4
3.5
Activities
3.4
3.4
Value for cost*
3.4
3.5
0.01.02.03.04.05.0
*Learn more about cost details

Lilac memory care services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Lilac memory care communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Lilac, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of memory care partners in Lilac that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Full medication management
Full medication management
85.7%
63.7%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
54.8%
47.2%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
92.9%
82.3%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
100%
98.2%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
88.1%
69.8%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
52.4%
28.2%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
97.6%
89.3%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
66.7%
59.1%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
83.3%
69.5%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%
*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Lilac memory care

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Lilac Memory Care partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
85.7%
72.1%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
64.3%
45.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
88.1%
67.9%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
42.9%
26.2%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Lilac partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
42.9%
27.9%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
69%
44.6%
No sugar
No sugar
66.7%
41.3%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
73.8%
50.1%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
35.7%
22.3%
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Availability of select dining options in Lilac memory care

Our memory care communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Lilac communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Professional chef
Professional chef
69%
32%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
71.4%
39.9%
Room service
Room service
69%
37.5%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
54.8%
22.9%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

Availability of select programs and activities in Lilac memory care

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered memory care communities in Lilac offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Lilac, CANational
Activity director
Activity director
73.8%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
59.5%
33%
Community service programs
Community service programs
54.8%
28.9%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
73.8%
53.1%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
78.6%
50.9%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
71.4%
59.5%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
71.4%
39.4%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
64.3%
35.6%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
64.3%
36.6%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
76.2%
46.9%
Live performances
Live performances
78.6%
47.1%
Dances
Dances
59.5%
32%
Fitness center
Fitness center
40.5%
22.2%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
78.6%
46%
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State regulations for memory care in Lilac

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for memory care. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about California memory care regulations will help you understand how memory care communities in Lilac protect seniors.
Learn about California memory care regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports
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