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Memory care in Lilac offers 24-hour care and supervision, trained staff, and specialized activities to accommodate the needs of seniors with Alzheimer’s or dementia. These communities typically offer advanced security features and engaging activities to help ensure residents’ well-being. The cost of memory care in Lilac is about $6,579 per month.

To find the best memory care options for your needs and budget, browse the 242 communities, read 7839 reviews of families’ experiences, and learn about available services and amenities. You may also consider nearby communities such as Temecula, Oceanside and Escondido.

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Photo of Aegis of Laguna Niguel
1212 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.7
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6 reviews
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Really great staff, nice large clean room, my dad has access to lots of activities, very good communication with staff (I have everyone's cell number), reasonably priced. My dad rates the food as just okay...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Aegis we know and care about our residents as unique individuals. We honor and affirm their past, present and future. And we believe that growing older is not something to be endured, it's something to be savored and celebrated like life itself. We are committed to knowing and caring for our...
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8.7
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18 reviews
8.7
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My mother is very picky. Staff has bent over backwards to find food that she will eat. There is an activities program but my mother chooses not to attend. Very affordable compared to other facilities. The...
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Corona RCFE is an Assisted Living community nestled in Riverside County in Corona, CA. In between 3 large counties, Riverside, Anaheim and Los Angeles, we are centrally located. Our community has beautiful views of the lovely Santa Ana Mountains. Many local restaurants, malls, adjacent to...
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Photo of Ivy Park at Sabre Springs
1616 Photos available
66 Floor plans available
8.6
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50 reviews
8.6
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50 reviews
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We love how attentive the staff are to mom, checking in on her constantly. Mom says that the food is just ok, but she always seems to be finding something to eat. The staff really have worked at getting her...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Ivy Park at Sabre Springs is a vibrant senior living community nestled in a tranquil neighborhood within the city of San Diego. Just off of the Ted Williams Freeway, Ivy Park is just minutes from the Pomerado Hospital, bustling shopping centers and exquisite dining options. Whether you’re...
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8.6
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96 reviews
8.6
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96 reviews
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I would rate all categories a 5. I was really happy with Silvergate. My husband was only there 3 1/2 months before he passed but I had only good experiences with them. He had a shared room so while it was...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
For more than 20 years, Silvergate Retirement Residence has been providing premier independent, assisted living, and Alzheimer's and Dementia accommodations and services to the North San Diego County. Located near the beautiful Lake San Marcos, our community is conveniently near popular...
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8.6
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19 reviews
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Overall care was great. She was booked in a ln apartment at first, but tried to walk the halls the first night so she was moved to the area they are more watched. I liked her being watched, but the rooms...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Founded more than 30 years ago, Heritage Pointe provides the highest quality assisted living and memory care services in Orange County, California. Welcoming to those of all faiths, Heritage Pointe is Orange County's only community rooted in Jewish culture, tradition and values.Our one-of-a-kind...
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8.5
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9 reviews
8.5
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Monarch Cottage is amazing! My sister is so happy there. When I asked her why she replied, "the staff is very nice to me". And they are! Kind, gentle and patient. The art activities have been fabulous! The...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Welcome to Monarch Cottage La Jolla!About Us:Monarch Cottage La Jolla is a premier, senior living community focused on providing exceptional services to residents with memory impairments such as Alzheimer’s, dementia or other cognitive impairment, or who need assisted living services, respite...
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Photo of The Seville of San Clemente
1414 Photos available
8.5
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What we like the most about The Seville is the proximity, newness, and cooperation. Actually, I will say there was a bit of a lag time in response to calls. So I would put 4 for that. Yes, we would recommend...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Seville of San Clemente is upscale assisted living and memory care community. The Seville is unique in that it offers a boutique style of management. Its co-founders live local one in San Clemente and the other in San Juan Capistrano. They bring over 30 years of management experience and...
Photo of Sunrise of Oceanside
1616 Photos available
77 Floor plans available
8.5
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I would definitely recommend it to others! The Director is very involved and the staff all seem very happy. Plus the place is very clean with high ceilings
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Photo of Gateway Park Senior Living
99 Photos available
8.4
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41 reviews
8.4
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41 reviews
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My parents are very happy with their decision. Very welcoming community, good food and a nice sized apartment with a great view. I would recommend this community to others.
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Gateway Park Senior Living is a beautiful full-service senior living community that offers a variety of options, amenities and services needed to live a full and enriching lifestyle. Gateway Park Senior Living offers the perfect balance of independence and care. Our active Independent Living and...
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8.4
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61 reviews
8.4
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So far in the past 3 weeks that my husband has been there, the personnel has been very helpful and friendly, room linens cleaned, with a variety of activities and also quiet time for everyone. I go there at...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Lease by October 29 and get $1,000 off your rent for the first three months. THAT’S A SAVINGS OF $3,000!*We are continuing to admit new Residents, where possible and appropriate, to help residents and families in need. We will do all we can to help those who are in need of our services now and...
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Photo of Oceanside Senior Living
99 Photos available
55 Floor plans available
8.4
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135 reviews
8.4
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135 reviews
5 star
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The facility was very nice with lots of things to do. The staff was friendly and caring. I would highly recommend Oceanside senior living. My father loved the food and the activities.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
At Oceanside Senior Living, we’re more than just caregivers — we’re family. Our community in Oceanside, California offers a warm, welcoming environment where residents feel truly at home. We believe in fostering genuine connections and treating every resident like a member of our own family,...
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Photo of Westmont of La Mesa
2121 Photos available
77 Floor plans available
8.3
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25 reviews
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25 reviews
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Location was a key factor (close to friends). On site staff, including nurse and visiting doctor is important. The facility age and cleanliness is important. Outdoor options along with daily and weekly...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Photo of Fairwinds Ivey Ranch
1414 Photos available
8.2
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25 reviews
8.2
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25 reviews
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Good place to live for me. Wonderful staff and many activities. Food is generally ok. I have no significant complaints, except food service is very slow. Also a bit lax meeting my food allergy concerns.
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Fairwinds — Ivey Ranch offers luxurious apartment homes in a fun and active retirement community. We are very proud to be managed by Leisure Care, who leads the industry in the development and management of elegant retirement communities that are all about Five-Star Fun. At Fairwinds — Ivey Ranch...
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Photo of Sun and Sea
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8.2
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Take a tour. Talk with the staff. Bring a list of concerns, questions, checklists, etc. Don't just listen to their answers, but observe them as they answer. Observe the residents. You will see how happy...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Here's What's So Special About Sun and Sea Manor Residential Memory Care! OUR CULTURE Years ago, the owners of Sun and Sea Manor decided that 'love' would be the cornerstone and central motivating theme for our community and it remains at the heart of our culture today. OUR CAREGIVERS... ...
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Photo of Ivy Park of Wellington
1111 Photos available
8.2
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32 reviews
8.2
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32 reviews
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For us, the size of the apartment was wonderful. Plenty of room. Was generally clean all around. The staff that took care of my dad was very good. The administration of the memory care wing was a little...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Ivy Park of Wellington is a senior living community set in picturesque Laguna Woods. The location boasts coastal amenities and a temperate climate. It’s only a short distance to many popular restaurants and shopping centers. At Ivy Park our seniors are empowered to maximize their independence and...
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88 Photos available
8.2
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25 reviews
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25 reviews
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I would generally recommend this community, but the initial transition had some challenges. There were issues with coordination and communication early on, particularly around care routines. While things...
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Ivy Park at Laguna Woods is a senior living community centrally located and easily accessible from Interstate 5 and Highway 73. The location is one of Orange County’s most desirable with its natural beauty, multiple golf courses, scenic views of the Saddleback Valley, close proximity to the...
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Photo of Ivy Park at Escondido
2020 Photos available
55 Floor plans available
8.0
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43 reviews
8.0
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43 reviews
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Since we have Mike there only for respite care, I don't know about the activities but everyone that I've read the days look very exciting and interesting. Everything else I would put as a five except for the...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Ivy Park at EscondidoA large array of amenities are also included on our campus, including:Beautiful courtyard and garden areaRestaurant-style diningLibrary, game, and activity roomsPet friendly
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8.0
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They would all be 5. We are very please with the care mom is getting. She's clean. Gets meals in dining hall or room which ever she prefers. Staff is always friendly and communicates if they feel there is...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Redwood Terrace is a proud member of Human Good, a non-profit organization that is dedicated to providing quality living options and support services to Seniors.
Photo of Meridian at Lake San Marcos
99 Photos available
8.0
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The people in the memory care portion of The Meridian are so considerate of their people that they take care of there. They keep the family informed of what they're doing and how the individual is fitting...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Meridian at Lake San Marcos is located in San Marcos, CA. It is unlike other assisted living facility in that it is a luxury senior living community. Our homes are beautifully designed and furnished for independent living, assisted living, and for those with dementia and Alzheimer's. We have...
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55 Photos available
8.0
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17 reviews
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Staff are kind and loving to the residents. Really blew away my preconceptions of what memory care would be like. My mother had a private room with her own bathroom. The room size was fine. She had a...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
ActivCare at Bressi Ranch is a specialized senior living community that serves the changing needs of those with Alzheimer's or related dementias by offering a continuum of living options. The focus of each day is always on enhancing the lives of each and every resident.ActivCare at Bressi Ranch's...
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All was fine. This was our first experience putting a family member into assisted living. He's still adjusting...our situation was sad but necessary. All good overall. They have Spectrum for basic cable &...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
WellQuest of Murrieta is a beautiful community offering many common areas for families to enjoy. We are located on Jackson Ave. just off Cal Oaks. We are conveniently close to doctor offices, hospitals, shopping and the freeway.Our management and staff come with industry experience and strive to...
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Photo of Belmont Village Sabre Springs
1010 Photos available
1212 Floor plans available
8.0
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love the place. took awhile to get medication management sorted kaiser makes it difficult), billing not accurate at this point but will get resolved...wish they included ingredients on menu, allergy handling...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
The Belmont Village facility at Sabre Springs is located in the attractive residential community of Poway. Situated in northeast San Diego County, Poway is known as 'The City in the Country' and prides itself on the fact that much of the area is preserved as dedicated open space. With great views...
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Photo of The Village HealthCare Center
1111 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.0
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I would highly recommend it. Mom's dementia caused challenges for the staff, mom wasn't very cooperative her time there, but they communicated well with the hospice staff and with family. She did develop...
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Photo of Citrus Gardens Memory Care
77 Photos available
11 Floor plan available
8.0
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[name removed] has Alzheimer's and I was so worried about how she would be taken care of in a facility basically paid for by medical. It is really great. She is more engaged, clean, and always smiling when I...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Citrus Gardens, located in the valley nestled between Southern California's San Jacinto Mountains and the City of Hemet, California, is the ideal lifestyle solution for senior residents with individual and unique needs. While the community provides a homelike atmosphere for our residents, their...
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1212 Floor plans available
8.0
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A 5 across the board. Very friendly clients and staff which tells me people are generally happy. A lot of different activities for seniors regardless of their physical condition
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Waking up each morning and taking a morning stroll along the coastline before joining friends for a round of golf at the Torrey Pine Golf Course or an outing to the Museum of Contemporary Art. End the day dining alfresco as you watch the sun set over the Pacific Ocean. For the residents of White...
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Cost of memory care in Lilac, CA

The average cost of senior living in Lilac is $6,579 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Riverside, CA with an average of $6,286 per month.

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. state and national averages

Lilac, CA
$6,579/mo
U.S. national average
$6,999/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. other senior living options

Memory Care
$6,579/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,286/mo
Studio
$7,589/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,898/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,793/mo

Senior living costs in Lilac vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Lilac, CA
Column state: California
Column national: U.S.
Community typeLilac, CACaliforniaU.S.
Memory Care$6,579/mo$7,329/mo$6,999/mo
Assisted Living$5,179/mo$6,206/mo$5,830/mo
Independent Living$4,303/mo$4,174/mo$3,520/mo
Memory Care
Lilac, CA:$6,579/mo
California:$7,329/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Assisted Living
Lilac, CA:$5,179/mo
California:$6,206/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Independent Living
Lilac, CA:$4,303/mo
California:$4,174/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
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Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly memory care costs have shifted over the past five years in Lilac and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

Lilac, CACA stateNational

Memory care cost trends in Lilac, CA

The table below shows how monthly memory care costs in Lilac have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Lilac, CA$6,793/mo$6,545/mo+3.8%
California$6,924/mo$6,714/mo+3.1%
National$6,685/mo$6,446/mo+3.7%
Lilac, CA
2024 average cost:$6,793/mo
2023 average cost:$6,545/mo
Percent change:+3.8%
California
2024 average cost:$6,924/mo
2023 average cost:$6,714/mo
Percent change:+3.1%
National
2024 average cost:$6,685/mo
2023 average cost:$6,446/mo
Percent change:+3.7%
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What families are saying about memory care in Lilac

Recent reviews for memory care in Lilac

Santianna in Carlsbad, CA

4.8
They did not do a good job onboarding but the staff is new and friendly and our loved one has settled in. It's rather expensive [fee removed] a month but it is brand new and very nice. Out of the other communities we toured Santianna is by far the nicest facility, and so far the care has been ...
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WellQuest of Murrieta

4.3
It was a good community while I was there. The room size was fair. the food was excellent and they had a variety. The staff was very friendly and efficient and communicated well. They were quick to respond if there were any issues I would recommend the community.

Discovery Commons Raincross in Riverside, CA

4.3
The front of the door/reception area staff and staff who work directly with clients/residents are wonderful. Great communication, caring, helpful. The staff who applicants work with initially to sign up are wonderful too - communicate quickly and helpful. However, once we signed up there was ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Dedicated and responsive staff. Several reviews highlight the attentiveness and caring nature of the staff at various communities. For instance, at Las Villas Del Norte, the staff's quick response to concerns and emails is appreciated, while at Oakmont of Escondido Hills, the aides are praised for their wonderful care and ...
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Quality of care and safety measures. Reviews stress the importance of high-quality care and safety measures in senior living communities. For example, at Vista Gardens Memory Care, staff are attentive to residents' needs and handle facility/maintenance requests quickly. Additionally, at ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, care staff are ...
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Engaging activities and social events. Engaging activities and social events are valued in many senior living communities, as evidenced in reviews for ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, where residents participate in arts & crafts, puzzles, games, exercise, conversation, music, and themed lunch events. At Everest at Oceanside, residents ...
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Comfortable living spaces and homelike atmosphere. Some reviews mention the importance of comfortable living spaces and a homelike atmosphere for seniors. For instance, at Silvergate Rancho Bernardo, residents describe the community as a warm, welcoming place that feels like a vacation or a resort. At Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Mar ...
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Effective communication between staff and families. Clear and effective communication between staff and families is crucial for ensuring the well-being of senior residents. At Everest at Oceanside, families appreciate honest and ongoing conversations with community staff to keep them informed and make sure care needs are being met. At Las Vill ...
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Strong sense of community and friendliness. A strong sense of community and friendliness is another desirable feature in senior living communities. For example, at Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Marcos, residents have praised the staff for their warm and compassionate nature, while at Santianna, the facility is described as the ...
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Lilac review score based on 1,307 family reviews

8.5
Review score220 facilities1307 reviewsWrite a review
This proprietary review score is based on 1307 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Lilac review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how memory care residents and family members rate memory care in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Lilac review score compared against nearby cities

8.5
Lilac, CA220 facilities
8.6
Riverside, CA0 facilities
8.5
Anaheim, CA0 facilities

Review subcategories for Lilac memory care

When memory care residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 1,307 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. This chart helps you compare Lilac resident and family memory care satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Lilac, CA averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.7
3.8
Friendliness
3.8
3.9
Care services
3.5
3.6
Staff
3.7
3.8
Meals & dining
3.4
3.5
Activities
3.4
3.4
Value for cost*
3.4
3.5
0.01.02.03.04.05.0
*Learn more about cost details

Lilac memory care services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Lilac memory care communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Lilac, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of memory care partners in Lilac that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Full medication management
Full medication management
85.7%
63.7%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
54.8%
47.2%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
92.9%
82.3%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
100%
98.2%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
88.1%
69.8%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
52.4%
28.2%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
97.6%
89.3%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
66.7%
59.1%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
83.3%
69.5%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%
*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Lilac memory care

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Lilac Memory Care partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
85.7%
72.1%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
64.3%
45.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
88.1%
67.9%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
42.9%
26.2%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Lilac partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
42.9%
27.9%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
69%
44.6%
No sugar
No sugar
66.7%
41.3%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
73.8%
50.1%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
35.7%
22.3%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

Availability of select dining options in Lilac memory care

Our memory care communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Lilac communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Professional chef
Professional chef
69%
32%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
71.4%
39.9%
Room service
Room service
69%
37.5%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
54.8%
22.9%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

Availability of select programs and activities in Lilac memory care

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered memory care communities in Lilac offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Lilac, CANational
Activity director
Activity director
73.8%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
59.5%
33%
Community service programs
Community service programs
54.8%
28.9%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
73.8%
53.1%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
78.6%
50.9%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
71.4%
59.5%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
71.4%
39.4%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
64.3%
35.6%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
64.3%
36.6%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
76.2%
46.9%
Live performances
Live performances
78.6%
47.1%
Dances
Dances
59.5%
32%
Fitness center
Fitness center
40.5%
22.2%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
78.6%
46%
0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

State regulations for memory care in Lilac

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for memory care. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about California memory care regulations will help you understand how memory care communities in Lilac protect seniors.
Learn about California memory care regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports
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