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Assisted living costs in Sha To She average about $4,777 per month. To find the best assisted living options for your needs and budget, browse through 9 communities in Sha To She. Our detailed directory has 272 reviews, photos, and lists of available services, amenities, and activities. Assisted living is ideal for seniors who need help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and eating, and prefer a social setting to pursue their interests. These communities offer a variety of dining options, as well as housekeeping services to eliminate daily stresses.

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Photo of Legend at Tulsa Hills
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9.6
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What we like the most about the community is the proximity to shopping and other areas of Tulsa I would want to go to. Yes, we would recommend the community to other families based on the experience so far.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Legend at Tulsa Hills is a beautiful residence offering personalized support, just the right amount of assistance to maintain your independence, and new opportunities for friendship. The residence features exceptional assisted living and memory care in Tulsa, a vibrant life enrichment program,...
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Photo of Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care
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9.5
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54 reviews
9.5
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54 reviews
5 star
65%
4 star
24%
3 star
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They have been Great with my mother in law. The food is Good. It's a very peaceful place. My mother-in-law does not participate much in the activities, which upsets me. I wish she would be more involved! But...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Assisted Living in Sand Springs, OKLocated in Sand Springs, Oklahoma, just five miles west of Tulsa, Green Tree assisted living and memory care offers maintenance-free living, just the right amount of assistance to maximize independence, and plenty of opportunities to connect with friendly...
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Photo of The Grove at Midtown
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9.2
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87 reviews
9.2
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87 reviews
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The food, service and attitude was generally terrible. No attempt to meet dietary needs. Most of the staff and administration were great. A few seemed to forget this was assisted living, not a hospital.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Golden YearsIf you are ready to trade in a life of fear, worry and stress for one rich in quality care, beautiful accommodations, an exciting community calendar and some of the most interesting men and women you’ve ever met, look no further. Nestled among the trees overlooking the beautiful...
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Photo of The Courtyards at The Ambassador Memory Care Assisted Living
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9.1
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28 reviews
9.1
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They practice memory care. Residents who need help but struggle with using the call light are routinely checked throughout the day. This facility understands geriatric care.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Ambassador Courtyards Assisted Living & Memory Care is the perfect choice for seniors looking for an apartment home setting, with supportive staff available 24 hours a day to assist with personal needs. Our team recognizes that each resident has individual needs and we are committed to doing...
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My father-in-law was a resident at Saint Simeon’s Memory Center in the late 90s. The care and compassion he received was exceptional. Three years ago when my mother-in-law needed assisted living care,...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Inverness Village is Tulsa’s only non-profit community for people 55 and better offering the Life Care Advantage. Located on 190 acres in a park-like setting, Inverness provides resort-style services and a wellness lifestyle.The Life Care Advantage at Inverness Village (The ONLY Life Care...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Cost of assisted living in Sha To She, OK

The average cost of senior living in Sha To She is $4,777 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Maramec, OK with an average of $3,826 per month.

Assisted living costs in Sha To She, OK, vs. nearby cities

Sha To She, OK
$4,777/mo
$4,611/mo
$4,693/mo

Assisted living costs in Sha To She, OK, vs. state and national averages

Sha To She, OK
$4,777/mo
U.S. national average
$4,698/mo

Assisted living costs in Sha To She, OK, vs. other senior living options

Assisted Living
$4,777/mo
$4,869/mo

Assisted living costs in Sha To She, OK, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,995/mo
Studio
$5,535/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,320/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,213/mo

Senior living costs in Sha To She vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Sha To She, OK
Column state: Oklahoma
Column national: U.S.
Community typeSha To She, OKOklahomaU.S.
Assisted Living$4,777/mo$4,499/mo$4,698/mo
Memory Care$4,869/mo$4,472/mo$4,946/mo
Independent Living$3,674/mo$3,862/mo$4,153/mo
Assisted Living
Sha To She, OK:$4,777/mo
Oklahoma:$4,499/mo
U.S.:$4,698/mo
Memory Care
Sha To She, OK:$4,869/mo
Oklahoma:$4,472/mo
U.S.:$4,946/mo
Independent Living
Sha To She, OK:$3,674/mo
Oklahoma:$3,862/mo
U.S.:$4,153/mo
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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Sha To She, OK

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What families are saying about assisted living in Sha To She

Recent reviews for assisted living in Sha To She

University Village Retirement Community in Tulsa, OK

4.8
I'd say you have to look past that it hasn't been updated in a while. And look at how it is taken care of, cleanliness, grounds, etc. As far as the staff they all are very friendly and very caring. I would say all the people we have met go above and beyond their jobs.

Heatheridge Assisted Living in Tulsa, OK

5.0
When my loved one is ill and something happens they are not notifying anyone in the family. I mean outside of that he is good but the communication is awful.

Saint Simeon's in Tulsa, OK

5.0
My mother and father lived at St. Simeon's. Everytime I left them, I was so thankful that they were able to live there. It is such a warm, comforting home with the best possible care...a bit of Americana! Thank you, St. Simeon's.

Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Caring and attentive staff. Throughout the reviews, the staff's dedication and care for residents is consistently mentioned. At The Grove at Midtown, a resident's family praises the staff for their kindness and friendly demeanor. At Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, the staff's responsiveness and willingness ...
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Variety of engaging activities. Activities offered at the communities are a source of joy and socialization for residents. Reviews for Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care and Legend at Tulsa Hills mention activities like arts and crafts, workouts, and parties that residents look forward to participating in. At The ...
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Comfortable living spaces. Residents appreciate the comfort and homelike feeling of their living spaces. Reviews for The Courtyards at The Ambassador Memory Care Assisted Living, Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, and Legend at Tulsa Hills describe the facilities as clean, cozy, and welcoming. Some faciliti ...
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Consistent communication with families. Families value clear and frequent communication from the community staff. At Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, the staff updates families about residents' progress and needs. At Legend at Tulsa Hills, families appreciate the open dialogue between themselves and the caregivers, ensu ...
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Homemade meals and dining experiences. Quality meals and dining experiences are important to residents and their families. At The Grove at Midtown, the chef accommodates individual preferences and dietary restrictions. Families at Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care and Legend at Tulsa Hills also mention the delicious fo ...
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Secure and safe environment. Residents and their families feel reassured by the security measures in place. At Legend at Tulsa Hills, the Legend community provides a sense of peace of mind, ensuring the safety of loved ones. At Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, Green Tree offers a secure and convenient locatio ...
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Sha To She review score based on 75 family reviews

9.4
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This proprietary review score is based on 75 reviews of 8 Sha To She assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Sha To She review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Sha To She review score compared against nearby cities

9.4
Sha To She, OK8 facilities
9.6
Prue, OK7 facilities
7.9
Oak Grove, OK13 facilities

Review subcategories for Sha To She assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 75 reviews of 8 Sha To She assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Sha To She resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Sha To She, OK averageNational average
Cleanliness
4.1
4.1
Friendliness
4.2
4.2
Care services
3.9
3.8
Staff
4.0
4.0
Meals & dining
3.6
3.7
Activities
3.9
3.7
Value for cost*
3.8
3.7
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Sha To She assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Sha To She assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Sha To She, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Sha To She assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Sha To She that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Sha To She, OKNational
Full medication management
Full medication management
50%
52.5%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
50%
33.8%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
100%
96.1%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
100%
97.6%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
62.5%
56.7%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
25%
30%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
100%
96.7%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
37.5%
47.6%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
50%
52.4%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Sha To She assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Sha To She Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Sha To She, OKNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
50%
51.3%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
50%
32.5%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
62.5%
41.1%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
12.5%
13.7%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Sha To She assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Sha To She partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Sha To She, OKNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
50%
27.2%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
37.5%
40.9%
No sugar
No sugar
25%
37.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
37.5%
36.2%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
25%
17.3%
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Availability of select dining options in Sha To She assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Sha To She communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Sha To She, OKNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
37.5%
31.5%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
50%
42.3%
Room service
Room service
37.5%
36.7%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
25%
18%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Sha To She assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Sha To She offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Sha To She, OKNational
Activity director
Activity director
50%
46.4%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
50%
31%
Community service programs
Community service programs
37.5%
30.4%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
62.5%
49.5%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
50%
49.3%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
50%
52.3%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
50%
41.3%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
25%
35.4%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
37.5%
38.1%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
50%
46.8%
Live performances
Live performances
50%
46.9%
Dances
Dances
12.5%
30.5%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
50%
46%
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State regulations for assisted living in Sha To She

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about Oklahoma assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Sha To She protect seniors.
Learn about Oklahoma assisted living regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports

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Legend at Tulsa Hills, Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care and The Grove at Midtown are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Sha To She, Oklahoma. See full list of communities.
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