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Memory care in Lilac offers 24-hour care and supervision, trained staff, and specialized activities to accommodate the needs of seniors with Alzheimer’s or dementia. These communities typically offer advanced security features and engaging activities to help ensure residents’ well-being. The cost of memory care in Lilac is about $6,579 per month.

To find the best memory care options for your needs and budget, browse the 242 communities, read 7860 reviews of families’ experiences, and learn about available services and amenities. You may also consider nearby communities such as Temecula, Oceanside and Escondido.

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Provides: Assisted Living
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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This is a nice looking, smaller community. We had no complaints about this place in general, it was clean, and everyone was friendly. However, the area it is located in wasn't very good for my Uncle. He...
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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I love this place and my Mom does too! My sister who lives in Oregon has visited and likes it too. I never worry about my mom anymore. They don't call constantlly like the other place my mom was in. The...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Harbor View Chateau offers personalized and supportive services with health care designed to meet the needs of those needing help with the activities of daily living; including specialized programs for residents suffering from all forms and levels of memory loss.The European architecture, as well...
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We have been very pleased with this community since my father moved in. We were initially drawn in by the fact that it does not feel like a normal institution or senior living community. It is almost like a...
Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Bay View Senior Accommodations is located in the sunny San Diego, California. As an assisted living facility, each and every resident is our top priority. Whether it's you, your spouse, or a parent, our facility is oriented by two things that we believe the quality of life is determined by; the...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
The Coronado Royale is located across from Tidelands Park and the Colorado Bridge. The facility offers beautiful views of both the San Diego Bay and the lights of downtown San Diego. The Coronado Royale is also located right next door to the Coronado Hospital and Medical Centers. The Coronado...
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I would tell others that it is a great community for independent living. It is very secure with a private gate. It is an upscale community. Our experience was during the pandemic. The staff are...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living, Nursing Homes
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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My mother was admitted there after she was released from a hospital with RSV. She went to PV to get her strength back. She was there for over 3 weeks.. The entire staff from admissions, social workers,...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
At Paradise Valley Manor and Health Care Center, we believe that we have the sacred responsibility to treat each and every person who walks through our doors as an honored guest and a dear friend. Our team of highly-skilled professional staff strives to ensure that our residents have the very...
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Fredericka Manor is an excellent residence for seniors. My mother has lived here since 2006. However, they just announced that they are closing their Care Center (June 2023). This means that residence...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Family owned and operated, located in Banning, California with over 13 years of experience in the industry. 22 bed facility with private and semi private rooms with 24 hour quality care that serves the elderly.
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Provides: Memory Care
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Alterra Clare Bridge provides a comfortable, home-like setting with programs and services designed specifically for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease or other memory impairments. Alterra Clare Bridge offers private and companion suites in a comfortable neighborhood environment. Unique building...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Join us at CalOaks CalOaks offers continuing residential care for seniors. We provide a home with a congenial atmosphere that encourages the freedom to enjoy life in a peaceful and quiet environment with the help of our understanding and well-trained staff. We are committed to providing our...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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This is a very nice community. I highly recommend it for the great staff and the excellent meals that they give my mom. They offer a variety of activities to choose from. They show that they care about the...
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Hallmark Assisted Living of Palm SpringsHallmark Assisted Living of Palm Springs is the kind of assisted living communities that allows its residents to enjoy the kind of freedom that they deserve. Located in the beautiful desert resort city of Palm Springs, CA, this community is just a mile from...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.

Cost of memory care in Lilac, CA

The average cost of senior living in Lilac is $6,579 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Riverside, CA with an average of $6,286 per month.

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. state and national averages

Lilac, CA
$6,579/mo
U.S. national average
$6,999/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, vs. other senior living options

Memory Care
$6,579/mo

Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,286/mo
Studio
$7,589/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,898/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,793/mo

Senior living costs in Lilac vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Lilac, CA
Column state: California
Column national: U.S.
Community typeLilac, CACaliforniaU.S.
Memory Care$6,579/mo$7,329/mo$6,999/mo
Assisted Living$5,179/mo$6,206/mo$5,830/mo
Independent Living$4,303/mo$4,174/mo$3,520/mo
Memory Care
Lilac, CA:$6,579/mo
California:$7,329/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Assisted Living
Lilac, CA:$5,179/mo
California:$6,206/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Independent Living
Lilac, CA:$4,303/mo
California:$4,174/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
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Memory care costs in Lilac, CA, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly memory care costs have shifted over the past five years in Lilac and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

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Memory care cost trends in Lilac, CA

The table below shows how monthly memory care costs in Lilac have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Lilac, CA$6,793/mo$6,545/mo+3.8%
California$6,924/mo$6,714/mo+3.1%
National$6,685/mo$6,446/mo+3.7%
Lilac, CA
2024 average cost:$6,793/mo
2023 average cost:$6,545/mo
Percent change:+3.8%
California
2024 average cost:$6,924/mo
2023 average cost:$6,714/mo
Percent change:+3.1%
National
2024 average cost:$6,685/mo
2023 average cost:$6,446/mo
Percent change:+3.7%
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What families are saying about memory care in Lilac

Recent reviews for memory care in Lilac

Santianna in Carlsbad, CA

4.8
They did not do a good job onboarding but the staff is new and friendly and our loved one has settled in. It's rather expensive [fee removed] a month but it is brand new and very nice. Out of the other communities we toured Santianna is by far the nicest facility, and so far the care has been ...
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WellQuest of Murrieta

4.3
It was a good community while I was there. The room size was fair. the food was excellent and they had a variety. The staff was very friendly and efficient and communicated well. They were quick to respond if there were any issues I would recommend the community.

Discovery Commons Raincross in Riverside, CA

4.3
The front of the door/reception area staff and staff who work directly with clients/residents are wonderful. Great communication, caring, helpful. The staff who applicants work with initially to sign up are wonderful too - communicate quickly and helpful. However, once we signed up there was ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Dedicated and responsive staff. Several reviews highlight the attentiveness and caring nature of the staff at various communities. For instance, at Las Villas Del Norte, the staff's quick response to concerns and emails is appreciated, while at Oakmont of Escondido Hills, the aides are praised for their wonderful care and ...
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Quality of care and safety measures. Reviews stress the importance of high-quality care and safety measures in senior living communities. For example, at Vista Gardens Memory Care, staff are attentive to residents' needs and handle facility/maintenance requests quickly. Additionally, at ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, care staff are ...
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Engaging activities and social events. Engaging activities and social events are valued in many senior living communities, as evidenced in reviews for ActivCare at Bressi Ranch, where residents participate in arts & crafts, puzzles, games, exercise, conversation, music, and themed lunch events. At Everest at Oceanside, residents ...
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Comfortable living spaces and homelike atmosphere. Some reviews mention the importance of comfortable living spaces and a homelike atmosphere for seniors. For instance, at Silvergate Rancho Bernardo, residents describe the community as a warm, welcoming place that feels like a vacation or a resort. At Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Mar ...
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Effective communication between staff and families. Clear and effective communication between staff and families is crucial for ensuring the well-being of senior residents. At Everest at Oceanside, families appreciate honest and ongoing conversations with community staff to keep them informed and make sure care needs are being met. At Las Vill ...
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Strong sense of community and friendliness. A strong sense of community and friendliness is another desirable feature in senior living communities. For example, at Silvergate Retirement Residence - San Marcos, residents have praised the staff for their warm and compassionate nature, while at Santianna, the facility is described as the ...
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Lilac review score based on 1,303 family reviews

8.5
Review score220 facilities1303 reviewsWrite a review
This proprietary review score is based on 1303 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Lilac review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how memory care residents and family members rate memory care in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Lilac review score compared against nearby cities

8.5
Lilac, CA220 facilities
8.5
Riverside, CA0 facilities
8.5
Anaheim, CA0 facilities

Review subcategories for Lilac memory care

When memory care residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 1,303 reviews of 220 Lilac memory care communities. This chart helps you compare Lilac resident and family memory care satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Lilac, CA averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.7
3.8
Friendliness
3.8
3.9
Care services
3.4
3.6
Staff
3.6
3.7
Meals & dining
3.4
3.5
Activities
3.4
3.4
Value for cost*
3.4
3.5
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Lilac memory care services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Lilac memory care communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Lilac, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of memory care partners in Lilac that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Full medication management
Full medication management
74.5%
63.7%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
44.5%
47.2%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
95%
82.2%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
98.6%
98.2%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
75.5%
69.8%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
38.2%
28.3%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
96.8%
89.3%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
59.5%
59.1%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
76.8%
69.5%
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Availability of select dementia care services in Lilac memory care

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Lilac Memory Care partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
70%
72.1%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
52.3%
45.5%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
65.9%
68%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
29.1%
26.2%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Lilac memory care

Memory care communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Lilac partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
40.9%
28%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
61.8%
44.7%
No sugar
No sugar
58.6%
41.4%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
65.5%
50.3%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
29.5%
22.5%
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Availability of select dining options in Lilac memory care

Our memory care communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Lilac communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Professional chef
Professional chef
53.2%
32%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
57.7%
40%
Room service
Room service
55.9%
37.5%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
37.7%
23%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Lilac memory care

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered memory care communities in Lilac offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Lilac, CANational
Activity director
Activity director
65.9%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
51.8%
33.1%
Community service programs
Community service programs
40.9%
28.9%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
69.1%
53.1%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
67.3%
51%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
70.9%
59.6%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
57.3%
39.5%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
53.2%
35.7%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
57.3%
36.7%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
64.5%
47%
Live performances
Live performances
65.9%
47.1%
Dances
Dances
49.1%
32%
Fitness center
Fitness center
33.2%
22.3%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
65.5%
46.1%
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State regulations for memory care in Lilac

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for memory care. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about California memory care regulations will help you understand how memory care communities in Lilac protect seniors.
Learn about California memory care regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports
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