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The average monthly cost of Independent Living in New York is $3,974, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data. This can serve as a helpful benchmark for what families in the Durham area can expect to pay. Pricing may vary based on the community’s location, your loved one’s care needs, and any additional services or amenities.

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I never knew about Vassar Warner until I called APFM. This was all new to me and I had no help and no clue. Then APFM told me about this quaint, very personal home and I called immediately. My mom didn’t...
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Vassar-Warner Home fills the need for senior adults who require a facility that provides comfort, safety and assistance with activities of daily living in a home-like environment. Seniors who become Adult Home residents of our facility are able to age-in-place while transitioning into our...
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Except the price a little high and difficult for those who are only getting social security (my husband and I are making up the difference for mom). Mom not so crazy about the food it's been a hit or miss....
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
When you need a home away from home, you will find a warm welcome at Hampshire House. Here, your quality of life will be enhanced in a gracious setting staffed with compassionate, skilled personnel, providing individual assistance to allow independence and carefree living.Hampshire House will...
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It is very welcoming and a historic building one resident opened her room to us and told how long she has lived there we could bring anything of mom's. Also got to choose the color and painter did a...
Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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What stood out the most is The facility is well organized. Modern, very functional apartments. Many activities are available. Excellent staff.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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A family member of mine moved into the Landing a month ago. We are very happy with our decision. The facility is lovely. [name removed] the Executive Director and Dementia Specialist made all our family...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Village at Laurel Lake is located in the cozy little town of Lee, in Berkshire County, Massachusetts. This location is perfect if you love to go fishing, kayak, bird watch, or take in the beautiful local scenery. For those that are avid hikers, there is access to the Appalachian Trail through...
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Staff friendly. [name removed] helpful in explaining/showing place. [name removed] helpful today and [name removed] a friendly face at the reception desk.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
We are certified and licensed by the New York State Department of Health, and have regular reviews by them. Our aide staff receive First Aid training, CPR and administer all medications. We have a caring staff with years of experience, ready to serve your needs!
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Nursing Homes
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
Care types provided by this community
Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
For more than fifty years, the Levine family (local family) has worked to create a loving environment based on traditional values that recognizes the unique needs and preferences of each of our residents.  We are small (Bed N' Breakfast Style) 18 residents.  We serve a population of the...
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
Care types provided by this community
Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.

Cost of independent living in Durham, NY

The average cost of senior living in New York is $3,974 per month as compared to $3,520 in the United States.

Senior living costs in New York vs. national costs

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Column communityType: Community type
Column state: New York
Column national: U.S.
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Community typeNew YorkU.S.Cost difference
Independent Living$3,974/mo$3,520/mo12.9% above national median
Assisted Living$6,817/mo$5,830/mo16.9% above national median
Memory Care$8,640/mo$6,999/mo23.4% above national median
Independent Living
New York:$3,974/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
Cost difference:12.9% above national median
Assisted Living
New York:$6,817/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Cost difference:16.9% above national median
Memory Care
New York:$8,640/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Cost difference:23.4% above national median
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What families are saying about independent living in Durham

Recent reviews for independent living in Durham

Heritage Pointe Apartments in Staatsburg, NY

4.0
The community is very friendly and everyone seems very good. I would recommend this community to others

Vassar-Warner Home in Poughkeepsie, NY

5.0
This community for my mother's care is very good. I like knowing that she is happy here. The community is always clean and the atmosphere is helpful for her. We like the menu of the meals. The staff helps her participate in the many activities. We would recommend the care and the value of this ...
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Beechwood at Eddy Memorial in Troy, NY

4.8
I have been a Resident of Beechwood for over six years, but at this time of pandemic and destructive weather events I especially appreciate the "peace of mind" it allows me. Not having to worry about handling details of a healthy and safe environment is a blessing.

Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Friendly and helpful staff. Several reviews for Provincial Glenville, Diamond Ridge, and Summit at Glenwyck mention the kindness and attentiveness of the staff, making residents and their families feel welcome and cared for. They go above and beyond to ensure a positive experience.
Variety of activities. Reviews for Summit at Glenwyck, Provincial Glenville, and Avila Independent Retirement Community highlight the wide range of activities offered, including live music, trips, puzzles, and exercise classes, which help residents stay engaged and active.
Clean and well-maintained facilities. Residents and families of Provincial Glenville, Diamond Ridge, and Holiday Manor at Woodside express appreciation for the cleanliness and upkeep of the communities, with special mention of the renovated facilities and gardens.
Supportive community atmosphere. Reviews for Heritage at The Plains at Parish Homestead, Holiday Manor at Woodside, and Diamond Ridge mention the sense of community and companionship that residents feel, making the transition to assisted living easier and more enjoyable.
Reasonable pricing and value. Families of Pinnacle Living at Forts Ferry, Provincial Glenville, and Holiday Manor at Woodside appreciate the affordability of the communities, with reasonable pricing and a good balance between services and cost.
Professional and accommodating management. Residents and families for Holiday Manor at Woodside, Summit at Eastwyck, and Provincial Glenville praise the professional and responsive management teams, who help with any concerns or questions and ensure a smooth transition into assisted living.
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Durham independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Durham independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Durham, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Durham independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Durham partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Durham, NYNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
21.2%
21.1%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
30.7%
35.6%
No sugar
No sugar
27%
31.9%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
24.8%
34.7%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
2.9%
11.4%
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Availability of select dining options in Durham independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Durham communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Durham, NYNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
24.8%
37.5%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
31.4%
44.7%
Room service
Room service
15.3%
38%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
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Availability of select programs and activities in Durham independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Durham offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Durham, NYNational
Activity director
Activity director
35%
46.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
24.8%
29.2%
Community service programs
Community service programs
24.1%
34%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
33.6%
48.3%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
45.3%
50%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
45.3%
54.9%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
35.8%
44.2%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
29.9%
39.5%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
35.8%
42.9%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
42.3%
48.2%
Live performances
Live performances
40.1%
47.9%
Dances
Dances
19.7%
34.1%
Fitness center
Fitness center
22.6%
40.6%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
38%
47.5%
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Ingersoll Place, Provincial Glenville and Heritage at The Plains at Parish Homestead are the top-rated independent living facilities near Durham, New York. See full list of communities.
There are 152 independent living facilities near Durham, New York. See the full list.
The best independent living facilities near you in Durham, New York are Ingersoll Place, Provincial Glenville and Heritage at The Plains at Parish Homestead. These independent living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.
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