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Cost of independent living in Stirling, NJ

The average cost of senior living in Stirling is $5,148 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Paterson, NJ with an average of $3,414 per month.

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, vs. state and national averages

Stirling, NJ

$5,148/mo

New Jersey state

$4,407/mo

U.S. national average

$3,520/mo

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, vs. other senior living options

Assisted Living

$7,727/mo

Memory Care

$9,435/mo

Independent Living

$5,148/mo

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, by floor plan type

Semi-Private

$3,233/mo

Studio

$4,445/mo

1 Bedroom

$5,121/mo

2 Bedroom

$6,716/mo

Senior living costs in Stirling vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.

Column communityType: Community type

Column destination: Stirling, NJ

Column state: New Jersey

Column national: U.S.

Community type	Stirling, NJ	New Jersey	U.S.
Independent Living	$5,148/mo	$4,407/mo	$3,520/mo
Assisted Living	$7,727/mo	$7,748/mo	$5,830/mo
Memory Care	$9,435/mo	$9,376/mo	$6,999/mo

Independent Living

Stirling, NJ:$5,148/mo

New Jersey:$4,407/mo

U.S.:$3,520/mo

Assisted Living

Stirling, NJ:$7,727/mo

New Jersey:$7,748/mo

U.S.:$5,830/mo

Memory Care

Stirling, NJ:$9,435/mo

New Jersey:$9,376/mo

U.S.:$6,999/mo

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Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly independent living costs have shifted over the past five years in Stirling and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

Stirling, NJNJ stateNational

Independent living cost trends in Stirling, NJ

The table below shows how monthly independent living costs in Stirling have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.

Column location: Location

Column cost2024: 2024 average cost

Column cost2023: 2023 average cost

Column percentChange: Percent change

Location	2024 average cost	2023 average cost	Percent change
Stirling, NJ	$4,618/mo	$4,495/mo	+2.7%
New Jersey	$4,148/mo	$4,491/mo	-7.6%
National	$3,416/mo	$3,319/mo	+2.9%

Stirling, NJ

2024 average cost:$4,618/mo

2023 average cost:$4,495/mo

Percent change:+2.7%

New Jersey

2024 average cost:$4,148/mo

2023 average cost:$4,491/mo

Percent change:-7.6%

National

2024 average cost:$3,416/mo

2023 average cost:$3,319/mo

Percent change:+2.9%

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Discover the many ways to pay for senior living

Planning ahead can better position you to make good choices for your loved one’s care in the future. But if your aging family member needs care now, there are ways to finance the cost of long-term care through a combination of approaches.

Your Guide to Paying for Care

Plan for and know your options for how to cover long-term care expenses.

Your Guide to VA Benefits

The VA provides two veterans benefits that can be used to offset the costs of long-term care.

Medicare and Medicaid

Understand the difference between these two public pay options, and what they cover.

What families are saying about independent living in Stirling

Recent reviews for independent living in Stirling

Brandywine Pennington by Monarch

5.0

My mother passed away at Brandywine last month. The decisions you are facing now about the care of a loved one are difficult and life-changing ones. It is with great gratitude that share my experiences with Brandywine at Pennington to assist you. This is the third review I have written over ...

The Residence at St. Peter’s in River Edge, NJ

4.5

We went with The Senior Residence at Se. Peter Apostle because they offered a comparable level of service for almost $2000 less a month. The facility is smaller with only 20 rooms, it is a former convent so you have to be ok with a small room versus some other places that had large rooms. They ...

Friends Village, Styer Campus in Newtown, PA

4.2

We chose this facility because I thought it would fit my brother-in-laws personality better. He is in a community where there are 3 or 4 suites, almost like a motel set-up. He has a dog so he is able to go out the front or back door, its more private and personal. His cottage is good sized, it ...

Stirling independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Stirling independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Stirling, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Stirling independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Stirling partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.

Stirling, NJNational

Nutritionist / dietician

36.9%

21.2%

Low / no sodium

46.4%

35.7%

No sugar

42.5%

32%

Vegetarian

41.5%

34.8%

Pureed meals

25.8%

11.7%

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Availability of select dining options in Stirling independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Stirling communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.

Stirling, NJNational

Professional chef

40.5%

37.6%

Restaurant style dining

47.9%

44.8%

Room service

39.5%

38.2%

Anytime dining

21.1%

17.8%

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Availability of select programs and activities in Stirling independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Stirling offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.

Stirling, NJNational

Activity director

47.9%

46.5%

Pet-focused programs

37.7%

29.3%

Community service programs

34.8%

34.2%

Devotional activities on-site

49.9%

48.3%

Parties / BBQs / happy hour

50.8%

50.1%

Outings / off-site activities

56.6%

54.9%

Piano or organ

43.4%

44.2%

Arts and crafts center

43.2%

39.7%

Educational speakers / life long learning

44.6%

43%

Clubs / games / karaoke

49.1%

48.3%

Live performances

47.9%

48.1%

Dances

35%

34.3%

Fitness center

26.6%

40.7%

Fitness classes

49.2%

47.6%

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10 Best Independent Living Communities in Stirling, NJ

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Cost of independent living in Stirling, NJ

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, vs. state and national averages

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, vs. other senior living options

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, by floor plan type

Senior living costs in Stirling vs. state and national costs

Independent living costs in Stirling, NJ, over time

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Discover the many ways to pay for senior living

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Stirling independent living services and amenities

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Availability of select dining options in Stirling independent living

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