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10 Best Assisted Living Facilities in Milfay, OK

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Assisted living costs in Milfay average about $4,705 per month. To find the best assisted living options for your needs and budget, browse through 80 communities in Milfay. Our detailed directory has 1154 reviews, photos, and lists of available services, amenities, and activities. Assisted living is ideal for seniors who need help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and eating, and prefer a social setting to pursue their interests. These communities offer a variety of dining options, as well as housekeeping services to eliminate daily stresses.

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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Nursing Homes
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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My father-in-law was a resident at Saint Simeon’s Memory Center in the late 90s. The care and compassion he received was exceptional. Three years ago when my mother-in-law needed assisted living care,...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Cost of assisted living in Milfay, OK

The average cost of senior living in Milfay is $4,705 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Carney, OK with an average of $3,220 per month.

Assisted living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. nearby cities

Milfay, OK
$4,705/mo
$4,724/mo
$4,702/mo

Assisted living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. state and national averages

Milfay, OK
$4,705/mo
U.S. national average
$4,705/mo

Assisted living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. other senior living options

Assisted Living
$4,705/mo
$4,739/mo

Assisted living costs in Milfay, OK, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,927/mo
Studio
$5,190/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,034/mo
2 Bedroom
$5,666/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$6,000/mo

Senior living costs in Milfay vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Milfay, OK
Column state: Oklahoma
Column national: U.S.
Community typeMilfay, OKOklahomaU.S.
Assisted Living$4,705/mo$4,501/mo$4,705/mo
Memory Care$4,739/mo$4,474/mo$4,955/mo
Independent Living$3,879/mo$3,864/mo$4,161/mo
Assisted Living
Milfay, OK:$4,705/mo
Oklahoma:$4,501/mo
U.S.:$4,705/mo
Memory Care
Milfay, OK:$4,739/mo
Oklahoma:$4,474/mo
U.S.:$4,955/mo
Independent Living
Milfay, OK:$3,879/mo
Oklahoma:$3,864/mo
U.S.:$4,161/mo
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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Milfay, OK

Paying for assisted living may seem daunting, but knowing all your options can be empowering. Read about the many private and public payment options that families use to pay for assisted living in Milfay.

What families are saying about assisted living in Milfay

Recent reviews for assisted living in Milfay

University Village Retirement Community in Tulsa, OK

4.8
I'd say you have to look past that it hasn't been updated in a while. And look at how it is taken care of, cleanliness, grounds, etc. As far as the staff they all are very friendly and very caring. I would say all the people we have met go above and beyond their jobs.

Rainbow Health Care Community and Rainbow Assisted Living Community in Bristow, OK

4.0
We are satisfied with Rainbow Health Care Community. Friendly. It is closer to our(my husband and my home). The price is reasonable and the staff is willing to help. It is small community and not a lot of traffic.

Heatheridge Assisted Living in Tulsa, OK

5.0
When my loved one is ill and something happens they are not notifying anyone in the family. I mean outside of that he is good but the communication is awful.

Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Compassionate and attentive staff. Many reviews mention the sincere care and attention shown by staff members towards residents and their families at various communities, including Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, Prairie House Assisted Living and Memory Care, and Cedar Ridge Senior Living.
Personalized care plans. Reviews highlight the importance of individualized care and attention at several communities, such as Bellarose Senior Living, where care plans are tailored to meet the unique needs of each resident.
Welcoming and friendly atmosphere. Numerous reviews mention the warm and welcoming atmosphere at various facilities, including Aberdeen Heights Assisted Living, Heatheridge Assisted Living, and Legacy Village of Stillwater.
Delicious and nutritious meals and dining experiences. Reviews consistently praise the quality of meals and dining experiences at several communities, including Legend at Mingo Road, The Courtyards at The Ambassador Memory Care Assisted Living, and Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care.
Dedicated activities and social events. Active and engaging social activities are mentioned as a highlight in many reviews for communities like FountainBrook, Cedar Ridge Senior Living, and The Grove at Midtown.
Thoughtful communication with families. Families appreciate clear and regular communication from staff at various communities, such as Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care, Legend at Tulsa Hills, and The Stonehaven.
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Milfay review score based on 269 family reviews

8.1
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This proprietary review score is based on 269 reviews of 55 Milfay assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Milfay review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Milfay review score compared against nearby cities

8.1
Milfay, OK55 facilities
8.0
Depew, OK78 facilities
8.2
Stroud, OK85 facilities

Review subcategories for Milfay assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 269 reviews of 55 Milfay assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Milfay resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Milfay, OK averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.9
4.1
Friendliness
4.0
4.2
Care services
3.7
3.8
Staff
3.9
4.0
Meals & dining
3.7
3.7
Activities
3.7
3.7
Value for cost*
3.7
3.7
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Milfay assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Milfay assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Milfay, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Milfay assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Milfay that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Full medication management
Full medication management
60%
52.5%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
43.6%
33.8%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
100%
96.1%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
100%
97.6%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
63.6%
56.7%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
25.5%
30%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
100%
96.7%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
45.5%
47.6%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
49.1%
52.4%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Milfay assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Milfay Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
56.4%
51.3%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
41.8%
32.5%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
47.3%
41.1%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
23.6%
13.7%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Milfay assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Milfay partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
50.9%
27.2%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
40%
40.9%
No sugar
No sugar
38.2%
37.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
40%
36.2%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
23.6%
17.3%
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Availability of select dining options in Milfay assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Milfay communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
30.9%
31.5%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
47.3%
42.3%
Room service
Room service
47.3%
36.7%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
16.4%
18%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Milfay assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Milfay offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Milfay, OKNational
Activity director
Activity director
52.7%
46.4%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
38.2%
31%
Community service programs
Community service programs
36.4%
30.4%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
61.8%
49.5%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
52.7%
49.3%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
52.7%
52.3%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
49.1%
41.3%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
40%
35.4%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
43.6%
38.1%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
52.7%
46.8%
Live performances
Live performances
50.9%
46.9%
Dances
Dances
36.4%
30.5%
Fitness center
Fitness center
12.7%
24.6%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
52.7%
46%
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State regulations for assisted living in Milfay

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about Oklahoma assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Milfay protect seniors.
Learn about Oklahoma assisted living regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports

Frequently Asked Questions

Legend at Tulsa Hills, Known Memory Care at Tulsa and Green Tree Assisted Living and Memory Care are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Milfay, Oklahoma. See full list of communities.
There are 80 assisted living facilities near Milfay, Oklahoma. See the full list.
The best assisted living facility near you in Milfay, Oklahoma is Known Memory Care at Tulsa. This assisted living community received the highest ranking based on verified family reviews.
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