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Assisted living costs in Flay average about $5,604 per month. To find the best assisted living options for your needs and budget, browse through 163 communities in Flay. Our detailed directory has 3001 reviews, photos, and lists of available services, amenities, and activities. You may also consider nearby communities such as Hickory, Gastonia and Morganton.

Assisted living is ideal for seniors who need help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and eating, and prefer a social setting to pursue their interests. These communities offer a variety of dining options, as well as housekeeping services to eliminate daily stresses. 

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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Wexford House is a senior living community located in Denver, NC that combines the comforts of home with a safe, supportive environment. At Wexford House we offer you more than assisted living services. The special difference is our dedication to improving each resident's quality of life and...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Brockford Inn has been providing elder care to our local community for over 40 years. Our staff has an equal amount of experience working with the geriatric population suffering from dementia, mental challenges, and being homeless. We are a family owned company, located in Granite Falls, NC. Our...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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My mother goes there for respite stays when my husband and I need a break. She has stayed a month at a time before. They're always very accommodating, even if I need to make arrangements at the last minute....
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Catawba Valley Living at Rock Barn is Catawba County's newest Assisted Living Community opening in 2006.  We are located seven miles from Hickory off of interstate 40.  Our property is adjacent to  Rock Barn Golf and Spa, home of the Greater Hickory Classic, part of...
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Woodlawn Haven Woodlawn Haven is an assisted living community nestled in Mount Holly, North Carolina. Our campus is conveniently located to route 27 and nestled in the deep green of Mount Holly North Carolina. We provide ample parking for both residents and their visiting friends and family....
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Photo of Ivy Grove Assisted Living
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Photo of Agape York
Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Welcome to The Willows at York, a place to call home. Many do.The Willows at York offers a home like setting and cheerful smiles from our professional staff that greet you everyday. Our caring staff offers the assistance you need while respecting your independence. Living Choices: Assisted...
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.

Cost of assisted living in Flay, NC

The average cost of senior living in Flay is $5,604 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Lincolnton, NC with an average of $4,916 per month.

Assisted living costs in Flay, NC, vs. state and national averages

Flay, NC
$5,604/mo
U.S. national average
$5,830/mo

Assisted living costs in Flay, NC, vs. other senior living options

Assisted Living
$5,604/mo
$6,859/mo

Assisted living costs in Flay, NC, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$3,893/mo
Studio
$4,881/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,585/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,402/mo

Senior living costs in Flay vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Flay, NC
Column state: North Carolina
Column national: U.S.
Community typeFlay, NCNorth CarolinaU.S.
Assisted Living$5,604/mo$6,196/mo$5,830/mo
Memory Care$6,859/mo$7,410/mo$6,999/mo
Independent Living$3,337/mo$3,534/mo$3,520/mo
Assisted Living
Flay, NC:$5,604/mo
North Carolina:$6,196/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Memory Care
Flay, NC:$6,859/mo
North Carolina:$7,410/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Independent Living
Flay, NC:$3,337/mo
North Carolina:$3,534/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
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Assisted living costs in Flay, NC, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly assisted living costs have shifted over the past five years in Flay and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

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Assisted living cost trends in Flay, NC

The table below shows how monthly assisted living costs in Flay have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Flay, NC$5,321/mo$5,007/mo+6.3%
North Carolina$5,729/mo$5,264/mo+8.8%
National$5,510/mo$5,285/mo+4.2%
Flay, NC
2024 average cost:$5,321/mo
2023 average cost:$5,007/mo
Percent change:+6.3%
North Carolina
2024 average cost:$5,729/mo
2023 average cost:$5,264/mo
Percent change:+8.8%
National
2024 average cost:$5,510/mo
2023 average cost:$5,285/mo
Percent change:+4.2%
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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Flay, NC

Paying for assisted living may seem daunting, but knowing all your options can be empowering. Read about the many private and public payment options that families use to pay for assisted living in Flay.

What families are saying about assisted living in Flay

Recent reviews for assisted living in Flay

MerryWood on Park in Charlotte, NC

5.0
First and foremost, both of my parents are happy at MerryWood. I trust the staff who truly care about their residents and provide a high level of service from the front desk to the dining room to planned activities to managing medications. I'm lucky to be close by and can drop in at any time. ...
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Springs of Catawba in Hickory, NC

4.0
I visited several facilities, some closer to my home, some newer, but the turning point for me was the people I met at Springs of Catawba. After talking to [Removed], I knew Springs of Catawba was the right place. Julie was caring, warm, understood the situation and her positive energy ...
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Best of Care Assisted Living in Kannapolis, NC

5.0
Best of Care Assisted Living has been a great place. I've felt that the care there has been better than any place that my loved one has been thus far in the Salisbury area. It's actually in Kannapolis. It's a smaller, family owned establishment. The owner even helps out when needed and even ...
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Flay review score based on 687 family reviews

8.2
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This proprietary review score is based on 687 reviews of 163 Flay assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Flay review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Flay review score compared against nearby cities

8.2
Flay, NC163 facilities
8.2
Lincolnton, NC158 facilities
8.2
Charlotte, NC137 facilities

Review subcategories for Flay assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 687 reviews of 163 Flay assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Flay resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Flay, NC averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.2
3.4
Friendliness
3.3
3.5
Care services
3.0
3.2
Staff
3.1
3.4
Meals & dining
2.9
3.1
Activities
2.9
3.1
Value for cost*
2.9
3.1
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Flay assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Flay assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Flay, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Flay assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Flay that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Flay, NCNational
Full medication management
Full medication management
54%
53.4%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
47.9%
34.6%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
96.9%
96.1%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
98.8%
97.7%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
57.7%
57.6%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
34.4%
30.6%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
98.8%
96.8%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
52.1%
47.9%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
55.8%
53%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Flay assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Flay Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Flay, NCNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
49.7%
52%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
33.1%
33.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
42.3%
41.6%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
11.7%
13.9%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Flay assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Flay partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Flay, NCNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
27%
28.1%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
46.6%
42.1%
No sugar
No sugar
39.3%
38.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
33.1%
37.4%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
24.5%
19.4%
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Availability of select dining options in Flay assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Flay communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
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Professional chef
Professional chef
24.5%
32.3%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
42.9%
43.5%
Room service
Room service
35.6%
37.9%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
14.7%
18.5%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Flay assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Flay offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Flay, NCNational
Activity director
Activity director
51.5%
47.5%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
36.2%
31.8%
Community service programs
Community service programs
32.5%
31.3%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
54%
50.3%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
50.9%
50.5%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
55.2%
53.2%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
46%
42.6%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
38.7%
36.7%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
39.3%
39.2%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
46.6%
47.9%
Live performances
Live performances
48.5%
48%
Dances
Dances
38.7%
31.6%
Fitness center
Fitness center
16.6%
25.3%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
47.9%
47.1%
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State regulations for assisted living in Flay

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about North Carolina assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Flay protect seniors.
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Carolina Care Retirement Community, Cadence at Mooresville by Cogir and Kempton of Rock Hill are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Flay, North Carolina. See full list of communities.
There are 163 assisted living facilities near Flay, North Carolina. See the full list.
The best assisted living facilities near you in Flay, North Carolina are Lake Wylie, Legacy Heights Senior Living Community and Brookdale Forest City. These assisted living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.
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