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Assisted living costs in Southold average about $7,727 per month. To find the best assisted living options for your needs and budget, browse through 147 communities in Southold. Our detailed directory has 3109 reviews, photos, and lists of available services, amenities, and activities. You may also consider nearby communities such as Riverhead, Southampton and East Hampton.

Assisted living is ideal for seniors who need help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and eating, and prefer a social setting to pursue their interests. These communities offer a variety of dining options, as well as housekeeping services to eliminate daily stresses. 

Southold Assisted Living Facilities | 3109 Reviews

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Last Updated: 9/19/26
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Photo of The Elms Retirement Residence
11 Photo available
8.9
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22 reviews
8.9
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22 reviews
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It's a facility that really feels like "home." My mother loves it. It doesn't matter what time of day you visit the staff are engaged with the residents who are interacting with each other. My mother is in...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
The Elms Assisted Retirement Campus is located in a beautiful Victorian neighborhood central to downtown Westerly, RI. We are within minutes of safe walking distance to Granite Theatre, Wilcox Park, Westerly Library and many churches, shops and restaurants. Founded in 1985 by onsite Owner Guy...
Photo of Sturges Ridge of Fairfield
1414 Photos available
8.9
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10 reviews
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Sturges Ridge is a wonderful place but it is expensive. Overall it is a very good place with a lot of activities, the people are nice and friendly.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
A first in Fairfield, Sturges Ridge is proud to bring senior living experiences to the neighborhood. Enjoy the company of good friends, take in the beautiful surroundings, pursue your passions, and explore opportunities to inspire you and further enrich your life. Benchmark Senior Living at...
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Photo of The Residence at Glastonbury
1515 Photos available
44 Floor plans available
8.9
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54 reviews
8.9
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54 reviews
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My experience is with the Reflections unit only - the aids seem to really know the residents and their individual habits. They are kind and caring and they really seem to understand dementia and how it...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
The Hearth is proud to offer Viking Pure Solutions’ electrochemically activated cleaning and disinfecting systems for our residents in each of our communities! This revolutionary safe and effective cleaner provides protection for our residents, teams, and families providing state of the art...
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Photo of The Village at Mariners Point
99 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.8
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35 reviews
8.8
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35 reviews
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The village has been extremely accommodating to my family. Their nurses and sales folks and all of their staff has been extremely kind to my parents and very helpful to us. Sadly, my mother moved in, but...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Majestic ocean views from a breathtaking seaside hilltop greet residents daily at The Village at Mariner's Point. Lavish gardens provide a setting for leisure, art, and fitness activities. Private walking paths and gazebos grace beautifully manicured gardens, while the 68-seat movie theater,...
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Photo of Benchmark at South Farms
99 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.8
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47 reviews
8.8
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47 reviews
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Overall experience is great. Facility is beautiful, staff are great, activities are very good, food is good, single room size is good, shared room is small
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Village at South Farms is a cozy 'country estate' with a panoramic valley view that our residents enjoy from the southern-style veranda overlooking its expansive lawns. Lavish gardens surround the community and provide the setting for shaded outdoor seating and walking areas. A terrace off...
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Photo of HarborChase of Branford
1010 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.9
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37 reviews
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
You can participate in a variety of activities to keep you physically fit and mentally sharp. Walking clubs, dancing, tai chi, and other physical activities will help you maintain and improve your mobility. You can also partake in mentally stimulating activities like open-ended discussions about...
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Photo of The Village at East Farms
2020 Photos available
22 Floor plans available
8.7
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50 reviews
8.7
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My husband has been in the village in memory care for about one month now he is adjusting well I am also adjusting well. The place is beautiful. The activities are great. He usually participates in most of...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Village at East Farms is a cozy country estate situated on a picturesque, 34-acre wooded hilltop. An authentic covered bridge, lavish gardens, and rolling panoramas provide the staging for a nine-hole putting green. At East Farms you will find private walking paths and gazebos that grace...
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Photo of All American Assisted Living at Coram
1212 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.6
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37 reviews
8.6
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37 reviews
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Staff offers wonderful communication and care. They are responsive to our questions and offer insight to the change needs and progression of our loved one. The community is new, bright and cheerful. The...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Welcome to All American Assisted Living at Coram. Our newly constructed residential community has been designed to create a homey, neighborhood feel.The All American difference is that we are committed to promote participation, inclusion and socialization. Our goal is to help residents to be as...
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Photo of Maplewood at Southport
1717 Photos available
66 Floor plans available
8.6
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51 reviews
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Cleanliness A+, Staff A+, Activities A, Apartment Size A for Studio, Food (recently) B-. Overall we absolutely love Maplewood at Southport. The holidays were magical in every way and their celebrations are...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Maplewood at Southport is a luxury senior living community offering independent living, assisted living and memory care. The community is situated on 27-acres of beautifully landscaped grounds and hosts 98 private apartments, a wrap-around porch, multiple dining rooms, outside courtyards, and an...
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Photo of Middlewoods of Newington
1010 Photos available
55 Floor plans available
8.6
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17 reviews
8.6
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17 reviews
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The food is a 3 - nice variety but lots of complaints about food arriving to table cold. The value is a 3 - was a 5 but increased rent within 6 months and utilities went from free to [Amount Removed]a month....
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Are you looking for Award-Winning Assisted and Independent Living? If so, Middlewoods of Newington is the place for you! Within the last year the community was awarded the following: • Assisted Living Federation of America’s "Champion for Seniors"; • Connecticut Assisted Living Association's...
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Photo of Sunrise of Fairfield
88 Photos available
66 Floor plans available
8.5
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11 reviews
8.5
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11 reviews
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We LOVED it there! [names removed] were amazing and took such good care of my Dad! The entire staff was so friendly and welcoming - the activities director was fabulous - the food was phenomenal and we wish...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nestled in a residential neighborhood of charming Fairfield County, Connecticut, Sunrise of Fairfield provides the very best in personalized care and services—including assisted living and memory care—to seniors in elegant surroundings. Our ideal location just 50 miles from New York is easily...
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Photo of Artis Senior Living of Commack
1111 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.5
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19 reviews
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I haven't been to Artis myself yet, but my brother reports that my mother is doing better there than at the previous place. I think that allowing the residents to go outside at will and to walk anywhere they...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Artis of Commack is proud to be 2026 Great Place to Work Certified. Artis of Commack is centrally located near the Sagtikos and Northern State Parkways. Nearby shopping at Northgate and Mayfair Shopping Centers, Walt Whitman Shopping Mall, Birchwood Shopping Center, Smithaven Mall, and Huntington...
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Photo of Southmayd Home for Women
2020 Photos available
8.5
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23 reviews
8.5
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23 reviews
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They were great with mom, but limited to what she needed, she needs 24hr care, I really thought they were a great fit, but mom needed more. The staff was great especially nurse [name removed], when she...
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
ALL TOURS MUST BE SCHEDULED THROUGH SOUTHMAYD HOME.
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Photo of Atria Larson Place
1616 Photos available
77 Floor plans available
8.5
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57 reviews
8.5
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57 reviews
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The staff, from the front desk, sales staff, restaurant chef and wait staff, cna's and many of the residents all did their utmost to make Gail feel welcome and at home. Everyone she interacted with was...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Atria Larson Place is a warm, welcoming community with all the comforts of home. Socialize in our bright, large common areas and enjoy diverse activities that allow you to pursue your interests and discover new ones. Located directly across from beautiful Lake Whitney, Atria Larson Place is close...
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Photo of Carriage Green at Milford
1111 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
8.5
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38 reviews
8.5
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The nurses and most of the aides are great, and the food is well liked. The location is very convenient since it is close to home. One resident is able to live independently, while another requires a higher...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Carriage Green at Milford is nestled in a residential neighborhood in the quaint New England town of Milford, CT. Our superb location complements the quality of life found within our community, where residents enjoy a wonderful quality of life and carefree lifestyle that is secure and...
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Photo of Atria Bay Shore
1212 Photos available
88 Floor plans available
8.5
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55 reviews
8.5
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55 reviews
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I would definitely recommend this to others. My brother was not in favor of moving, but he's so happy there and says so often. We're happy for him and don't worry about him.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
At Atria Bay Shore, you'll find a comfortable, secure environment with a variety of events and activities to choose from. Whether it's seeing live entertainment, staying fit with our daily exercise classes, or taking a trip to nearby points of interest, there's something for everyone at Atria Bay...
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Photo of The Residence at Ferry Park
88 Photos available
8.2
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73 reviews
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73 reviews
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The staff at The Residence at Ferry Park are so friendly, sincere, and patient. You can tell they really care about the residents and treat them with kindness and respect. It’s a warm, comfortable place, and...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Our assisted and memory care community is nestled on ten beautiful acres in Connecticut, providing a warm and inviting background for the perfect senior living experience. With spacious and comfortable accommodations that feel like home, events and activities that nourish that soul and...
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Photo of Avery Heights
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8.4
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28 reviews
8.4
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The staff is very friendly, the apartment is spacious, bright and clean. There are plenty of activities and the food is great. The only downside fall so far is the lack of communication. We've asked for...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
For over 60 years, Avery Heights has earned a solid reputation for providing seniors with seamless care, convenient living, and extraordinary value. As a rental-only community, you won’t have to deal with the burden of paying entrance fees or negotiating complex contracts—yet you’ll still have...
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Photo of Birchwood Suites Enhanced Assisted Living and Memory Care
1010 Photos available
8.1
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103 reviews
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The place is in a nice setting. Its definitely not an upscale facility but the staff are nice the price is very affordable. My mom couldn't feed herself and I don't think they have the right staff for that...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Birchwood Suites is a a fully enhanced assisted living community nestled on five acres of beautiful property in East Northport, NY. Our community offers a variety of luxury suites when life becomes too difficult or unsafe to live alone. Our Enhanced License, appointed by the New York State...
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Photo of Ocean Meadow Memory Care
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8.0
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15 reviews
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The staff at ocean Meadow is amazing. They make sure your loved one feels at home. Our father before he passed away [date removed] loved everything about the facility. The staff were so sad when he passed....
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Unique, boutique-style senior living…You’ve just discovered the shoreline’s best kept secret! Ocean Meadow is a specialized memory care community located in the heart of downtown Clinton, just moments from Clinton Harbor. Our community is privately owned, which fosters a unique, homelike...
Photo of Amber Court of Smithtown
66 Photos available
8.0
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Staff is lovely and accommodating, very clean facility and med service seems efficient as well. Staff pleasant and accommodating. The only suggestion for improvement is food. Food may be the only area that...
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Welcome to Amber Court of Smithtown..a wonderful place to call home. When living arrangements are no longer safe or desirable, we offer an extraordinary alternative. Residential services, personal care assistance, and medical supervision are valuable features of this lifestyle. Our...
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Photo of Benchmark Senior Living at Split Rock
1010 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
7.5
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38 reviews
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I would give split rock a four and that's just because of my logistical experience the place itself seemed lovely. a very nice facility however, last minute they explained that their assessment of my father...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Set at the heart of it all, Benchmark at Split Rock welcomes you to connect — with friends, with nature, with your passions and your talents. Our brand new, state-of-the-art community will be a place where innovation and tradition meet.Nestled among the shops and restaurants at Split Rock, we are...
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Photo of Crescent Point At Niantic
1515 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
7.5
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44 reviews
7.5
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44 reviews
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All good, just wish they would keep me in the loop on things. Example, unbeknownst to me they ordered an ultrasound for her leg. I had already done that right before she went there and knew the issues....
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Exceptional assisted living services in a residential living environment is the cornerstone of Crescent Point at Niantic. Crescent Point captures the spirit of village convenience and accessibility while embracing the neighborhood feel of a front porch and good friends. While the environment is...
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Photo of The Arbors at Hauppauge
1818 Photos available
33 Floor plans available
7.3
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109 reviews
7.3
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109 reviews
5 star
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They were great ; 1 thing that caused concern and I was stressed about: They just need to make sure upon admission that they understand the different medical coverages accepted when a person relocates into...
Provides: Assisted Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
The Arbors at Hauppauge- Beautiful courtyard with colorful gardens and walking path- Conveniently located in the heart of Long Island with easy access to the LIE- Very active and engaging recreation program- Warm, compassionate well-trained staffOur mission at The Arbors Assisted Living is to...
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Photo of Chatham Place at Mary Wade
1010 Photos available
22 Floor plans available
7.2
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14 reviews
7.2
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14 reviews
5 star
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An excellent memory care community for my spouse. The staff is excellent and caring. My rating is 5 and my family is very happy!
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Cost of assisted living in Southold, NY

The average cost of senior living in Southold is $7,727 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Queens, NY with an average of $5,992 per month.

Assisted living costs in Southold, NY, vs. state and national averages

Southold, NY
$7,727/mo
U.S. national average
$5,830/mo

Assisted living costs in Southold, NY, vs. other senior living options

Assisted Living
$7,727/mo
$9,435/mo

Assisted living costs in Southold, NY, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$4,512/mo
Studio
$6,307/mo
1 Bedroom
$7,787/mo
2 Bedroom
$9,831/mo

Senior living costs in Southold vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Southold, NY
Column state: New York
Column national: U.S.
Community typeSouthold, NYNew YorkU.S.
Assisted Living$7,727/mo$6,817/mo$5,830/mo
Memory Care$9,435/mo$8,640/mo$6,999/mo
Independent Living$5,148/mo$3,974/mo$3,520/mo
Assisted Living
Southold, NY:$7,727/mo
New York:$6,817/mo
U.S.:$5,830/mo
Memory Care
Southold, NY:$9,435/mo
New York:$8,640/mo
U.S.:$6,999/mo
Independent Living
Southold, NY:$5,148/mo
New York:$3,974/mo
U.S.:$3,520/mo
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Assisted living costs in Southold, NY, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly assisted living costs have shifted over the past five years in Southold and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

Southold, NYNY stateNational

Assisted living cost trends in Southold, NY

The table below shows how monthly assisted living costs in Southold have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 average costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Southold, NY$7,593/mo$7,341/mo+3.4%
New York$6,592/mo$6,333/mo+4.1%
National$5,510/mo$5,285/mo+4.2%
Southold, NY
2024 average cost:$7,593/mo
2023 average cost:$7,341/mo
Percent change:+3.4%
New York
2024 average cost:$6,592/mo
2023 average cost:$6,333/mo
Percent change:+4.1%
National
2024 average cost:$5,510/mo
2023 average cost:$5,285/mo
Percent change:+4.2%
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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Southold, NY

Paying for assisted living may seem daunting, but knowing all your options can be empowering. Read about the many private and public payment options that families use to pay for assisted living in Southold.

What families are saying about assisted living in Southold

Recent reviews for assisted living in Southold

The Bristal at East Northport

4.5
The staff at the East Northport Bristal is always kind. They always have a smile on their faces and are genuinely sweet and loving to my mom. The facility is ALWAYS spotless and beautiful to live in or visit. The only area I see occasional improvement for is the food. It is not always hot and ...
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3030 Park, a CCRC in Bridgeport, CT

5.0
My mom moved into assisted living at the Watermark after nearly 60 years living in her home, the last 36 years by herself. While it was a major life event for my mom, the Watermark made it an exceptionally smooth transition. They arranged and paid for the move, the movers were efficient and ...
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Ocean Meadow Memory Care in Clinton, CT

5.0
They have been great. It is a smaller facility so it feels much homier. The staff seems to be very in tune with all of the residents there. They get really personalized care, we really could not be happier. I looked at 4 different places and this one was by far the best and the least the ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Friendly and attentive staff. Several reviews praise the warm and caring nature of the staff at various communities, with many expressing gratitude for the long-term friendships that have formed between residents and caregivers. At Benchmark at South Farms, the staff is described as supportive, kind, and helpful. At Whisp ...
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Engaging activities and social opportunities. Residents find enjoyment in the wide range of activities offered at different communities. At Atria Patchogue, staff organize weekly trivia nights, regular outings to nearby parks for swimming and hikes, and farming activities. At Colebrook Village at Hebron, residents participate in various p ...
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Quality food and dining experiences. Throughout the reviews, the quality of food stands out as a major factor in residents' satisfaction with their community. At Spring Village at Stratford, the meals are described as delicious, terrific, and well balanced. At Atria Crossroads Place, the chef accommodates individual dietary res ...
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Clean and well-maintained living spaces. Reviews often praise the cleanliness and upkeep of communities, both for private rooms and outdoor areas like gardens and walking trails. At Benchmark Senior Living at Hamden, the facilities are described as beautiful, clean, and well maintained. At Colebrook Village at Hebron, residents app ...
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Resident-centered care and communication. Families appreciate clear and effective communication between community staff and their loved ones, allowing them to stay informed and make sure care needs are being met. At MiddleBrook Farms at Trumbull, the staff is described as attentive and friendly, with one resident sharing her happiness ...
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Active social community. Several reviews highlight the importance of socialization for residents and the role of the community in fostering a sense of connection. At Avery Heights, residents attend monthly church services, participate in activities together, and form friendships. At Atria Patchogue, residents engage i ...
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Southold review score based on 499 family reviews

8.3
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This proprietary review score is based on 499 reviews of 147 Southold assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Southold review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Southold review score compared against nearby cities

8.3
Southold, NY147 facilities
8.3
Hempstead, NY150 facilities
8.1
Queens, NY213 facilities

Review subcategories for Southold assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 499 reviews of 147 Southold assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Southold resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Southold, NY averageNational average
Cleanliness
3.2
3.4
Friendliness
3.2
3.5
Care services
2.9
3.2
Staff
3.1
3.4
Meals & dining
2.9
3.1
Activities
2.9
3.1
Value for cost*
2.9
3.1
0.01.02.03.04.05.0
*Learn more about cost details

Southold assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Southold assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Southold, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Southold assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Southold that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Full medication management
Full medication management
54.4%
53.4%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
42.2%
34.6%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
81.6%
96.1%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
91.8%
97.7%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
60.5%
57.6%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
28.6%
30.6%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
83.7%
96.8%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
49.7%
47.9%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
57.1%
53%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Southold assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Southold Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
52.4%
52%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
39.5%
33.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
55.1%
41.6%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
15%
13.9%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Southold assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Southold partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
32%
28.1%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
46.3%
42.1%
No sugar
No sugar
43.5%
38.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
40.8%
37.4%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
17.7%
19.4%
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Availability of select dining options in Southold assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Southold communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Southold, NYNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
42.2%
32.3%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
44.2%
43.5%
Room service
Room service
37.4%
37.9%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
21.1%
18.5%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Southold assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Southold offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Southold, NYNational
Activity director
Activity director
44.2%
47.5%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
37.4%
31.8%
Community service programs
Community service programs
37.4%
31.3%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
47.6%
50.3%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
50.3%
50.5%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
55.8%
53.2%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
44.2%
42.6%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
40.1%
36.7%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
44.9%
39.2%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
50.3%
47.9%
Live performances
Live performances
48.3%
48%
Dances
Dances
36.7%
31.6%
Fitness center
Fitness center
33.3%
25.3%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
49.7%
47.1%
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State regulations for assisted living in Southold

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about New York assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Southold protect seniors.
Learn about New York assisted living regulationsDownload the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports

Frequently Asked Questions

Colebrook Village at Hebron, Elmbrook Village at Bozrah and Benchmark Senior Living at Hamden are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Southold, New York. See full list of communities.
There are 147 assisted living facilities near Southold, New York. See the full list.
The best assisted living facilities near you in Southold, New York are Elmbrook Village at Bozrah and Spring Village at Stratford. These assisted living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.
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