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Assisted living costs in Selden average about $5,953 per month. To find the best assisted living options for your needs and budget, browse through 35 communities in Selden. Our detailed directory has 803 reviews, photos, and lists of available services, amenities, and activities. Assisted living is ideal for seniors who need help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and eating, and prefer a social setting to pursue their interests. These communities offer a variety of dining options, as well as housekeeping services to eliminate daily stresses.

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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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They're doing a good job taking care of my Dad here. It's a nice place, not overcrowded at all, and it has a nice homey feel. Dad complains about the people there being "too old", so they could use more...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Olsen Rest Home is an assisted living community located in Nesconset, NY. Nesconset is a hamlet located in Long Island, an area that is widely known for its unique culture, delicious seafood and Italian cuisine and distinctive music. Sports enthusiasts will enjoy catching one of the region's many...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Provides: Memory Care, Nursing Homes
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Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
We are a 240 bed skilled nursing facility located on Long Island's South Shore. We offer subacute rehab services which offer residents the opportunity to optimize their daily functioning. We also offer long term care.  We have a specialized Young Adult Unit and an Alzheimer's...
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Cost of assisted living in Selden, NY

The average cost of senior living in Selden is $5,953 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Remsenburg-Speonk, NY with an average of $4,987 per month.

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Selden, NY vs. nearby cities

Selden, NY
$5,953/mo

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Selden, NY vs. the state and national average

Selden, NY
$5,953/mo
U.S. national average
$4,635/mo

Average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Selden vs. other types of senior living

Assisted Living
$5,953/mo
$6,178/mo

Median monthly costs of Assisted Living in Selden, NY by room type

Semi-Private
$4,414/mo
Private
$4,333/mo
Studio
$5,947/mo
1 Bedroom
$6,328/mo
2 Bedroom
$7,023/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$4,500/mo

Average cost of Assisted Living in Selden over time

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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Selden, NY

Paying for assisted living may seem daunting, but knowing all your options can be empowering. Read about the many private and public payment options that families use to pay for assisted living in Selden.

What families are saying about assisted living in Selden

Recent reviews for assisted living in Selden

The Bristal at East Northport

4.5
The staff at the East Northport Bristal is always kind. They always have a smile on their faces and are genuinely sweet and loving to my mom. The facility is ALWAYS spotless and beautiful to live in or visit. The only area I see occasional improvement for is the food. It is not always hot and ...
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Whisper Woods of Smithtown

4.9
The community is beautiful and well maintained. The staff is friendly, helpful and attentive. The nursing staff is on top of all the residents healthcare needs. There are plenty of activities to interest everyone. Our family feels blessed to have found this Assisted Living to care for our ...
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3030 Park, a CCRC in Bridgeport, CT

5.0
My mom moved into assisted living at the Watermark after nearly 60 years living in her home, the last 36 years by herself. While it was a major life event for my mom, the Watermark made it an exceptionally smooth transition. They arranged and paid for the move, the movers were efficient and ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Friendly and helpful staff. Numerous reviews mention the kindness and attentiveness of the staff at various communities, such as Village Walk at Patchogue and The Arbors at Islandia - East and West, who go above and beyond to ensure that residents and their families feel welcome and cared for.
Variety of activities to accommodate different interests. Communities like Atria Bay Shore, Village Walk at Patchogue, and Sunrise of Smithtown offer an array of engaging activities for residents, tending to residents' hobbies and ensuring they remain socially active.
Clean and well-maintained living spaces. Several reviews highlight the importance of cleanliness and maintenance in residents' satisfaction with their senior living communities. For instance, Atria Bay Shore, The Bristal at Holtsville, and Sunrise of Holbrook are praised for their pristine environments and attentive care to perso ...
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Delicious and accommodating meals. Quality meals are a significant factor in residents' overall happiness, with communities like The Arbors at Islandia - East and West, Sunrise of East Setauket, and Whisper Woods of Smithtown going the extra mile to accommodate dietary restrictions and individual preferences.
Communication between staff and families. Clear and open communication is essential for maintaining trust and peace of mind for both residents and their loved ones. Communities like The Village at South Setauket, Village Walk at Patchogue, and Whisper Woods of Smithtown prioritize frequent and effective communication between familie ...
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Safe and secure living conditions. The safety and security of residents is paramount, with communities like The Arbors at Islandia - East and West and Lake Shore Assisted Living Residence focusing on providing a protected environment while still allowing for an enjoyable living experience.
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Selden review score based on 116 family reviews

8.7
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This proprietary review score is based on 116 reviews of 31 Selden assisted living communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Selden review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how assisted living residents and family members rate assisted living in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Selden review score compared against nearby cities

8.7
Selden, NY31 facilities
8.7
Lake Grove, NY40 facilities

Review subcategories for Selden assisted living

When assisted living residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 116 reviews of 31 Selden assisted living communities. This chart helps you compare Selden resident and family assisted living satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
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Cleanliness
4.7
4.5
Friendliness
4.7
4.6
Care services
4.4
4.2
Staff
4.7
4.5
Meals & dining
4.1
4.1
Activities
4.1
4.1
Value for cost*
4.4
4.1
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Selden assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Selden assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Selden, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Selden assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Selden that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
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Full medication management
Full medication management
58.1%
52.5%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
61.3%
33.7%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
90.3%
98.5%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
100%
99.1%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
67.7%
56.9%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
29%
30.1%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
93.5%
98.9%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
51.6%
48.1%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
54.8%
53.1%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Selden assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Selden Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
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Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
51.6%
51.3%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
35.5%
32.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
54.8%
41.2%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
9.7%
13.6%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Selden assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Selden partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
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Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
38.7%
27.1%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
45.2%
40.5%
No sugar
No sugar
45.2%
37.3%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
32.3%
35.7%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
19.4%
15.3%
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Availability of select dining options in Selden assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Selden communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
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Professional chef
Professional chef
38.7%
31.2%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
45.2%
42.2%
Room service
Room service
25.8%
36.2%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
6.5%
18.1%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Selden assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Selden offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
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Activity director
Activity director
45.2%
46.2%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
38.7%
31%
Community service programs
Community service programs
38.7%
30.2%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
45.2%
49.6%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
48.4%
49.1%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
67.7%
52.4%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
41.9%
41.1%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
48.4%
34.8%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
41.9%
37.7%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
51.6%
46.6%
Live performances
Live performances
48.4%
46.8%
Dances
Dances
48.4%
29.9%
Fitness center
Fitness center
25.8%
24.4%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
51.6%
45.8%
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State regulations for assisted living in Selden

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to ensure seniors reside in a safe environment. Learning about New York assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Selden protect seniors.

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3030 Park, a CCRC, Atria Plainview and Maplewood at Southport are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Selden, New York. See full list of communities.

There are 35 assisted living facilities near Selden, New York. See the full list.

The best assisted living facilities near you in Selden, New York are 3030 Park, a CCRC, Atria Plainview and Atria Huntington. These assisted living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.

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